I'm identical triplets with my sisters Londen and Krista. Londen and I found eachother when we were 15, and I moved in with her and our mom. We went out in serch for Krista less than 6 months later and found her not even a month ago. We found out where she lived and moved in practically next door. About two weeks ago we finally found out who she was when we witnessed her and her boyfriend Josh when they jumped into the nearby bay. We revived them and they were okay. Josh told us that Krista was pregnant. Later we found out she and her baby were okay, but I really want to help her. She has also moved out of her abusive family home and into ours. She doesnt want to go to a shrink or anything. How should we act and treat her? We're just so scared that she'll do something distructive again and we really dont want to lose her. what should we do to help the baby? and should we tear Josh and Krista apart? If you have any additional ideas, that would be a great help thanks.
2007-03-11 12:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by Gotha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well if she don't want a shrink, then you've got to be her shrink, cause she needs one.
so does josh, for that matter.
2007-03-11 12:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an eye on her of course, but don't make the whole focus the fact that you are afraid she will do something. I understand your fears. Just be as supportive as you can, watch for any changes in her, like if she seems falsely happy one day. Or if she's calm and happy most days but then gets real depressed. Never try to tear a couple apart, she and her boyfriend both have problems and in reality they probably aren't good for each other, but it's not up to you to try to get them to break-up. See if you can talk him into going to counseling. Or sign up for family counseling, you and your other sister can go, and you can ask Krista if she wants to go with you, tell her it would mean alot to you. But try not to pressure her too much about anything. Good Luck to you all.
2007-03-11 13:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she needs serious family support, she must be going through a lot since you guys just found each other. Josh might be the only person that she trusts right now and hopefully you can develop a trust with her as well and she will see that Josh is bad news. I wouldn't push the shrink thing since she obviously has trust issues. Stick by her and good luck.
2007-03-11 12:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she is going to say that she doesn't want a strink. She needs help though. When people are in a situation they will say that they are okay and that they don't help. But She does! She is ging to be ayoung moth! That in itself is hard! Don't take this issue lightly. She should really see a professional for some help. And along with that you and your other sister should be as understaning and thoughtful as possible.
2007-03-11 14:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that she found her sisters she will find comfort! Maybe she felt something was always missing from her life. Stick by her side! Listen to her if the needs to talk! Good Luck!
2007-03-11 12:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend got pregnant and she tried to slit her wrists and her boyfriend stopped her. She lost the baby and got pregnant againg and started doing drugs and lost the baby again and then she got pregnant again and ran away so don't feel bad your sister isn't the only one like that.
2007-03-11 13:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support and lots of love! Tell her how great it is that she is preggo. Emotions run high when preg.
2007-03-11 12:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by vgleason_102301 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALOT OF UNDERSTANDING AND TLC
2007-03-11 12:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋