feeling depressed, sad, stresseed, weary, invisible.......help?!?!?!??

Question

I am a young teen woh is really just always tired and depressed and in need of a frind. I dont have any friends at scholl I feel invisible at home andi am aconstantly overwelmed with chores and work etc. I am dead serious when I say i have no friends I only have my father to tell those kinds of things to and he doesnt live with me. MY parents are getting seperated and i hate seein them like this. i am desperate and i need inspiraation and advice. I pretty much feel hopeless now. Somebody PLEASSEE help!!!!!!!!

I will take any valuable advice

I dont really get along with my mother though, but I am very good whenI am with my father. But they are seperating so my fatehr is going to leave the state.

Answer 1

I do hope you get help. Sometimes if you have no one to talk to, try talking to God. He does listen, and cares very much. He knows you are having a very hard time now. If you have a preacher try talking to him, or even to his wife. Take care of yourself, things will work out in the end, but please find someone you can talk to. I know sometimes it is hard talking to people. If you keep it all to your self hon you are only going to get worse. You have to talk to some one just to get it out of you, or your going to explode. God bless you and keep you in his care. You really need it right now.

Answer 2

Hey....life is what you make of it. It's easy to be over-whelmed by things in life but you can't let it beat you down. You have to be strong for yourself for nobody else can. And it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially at school, but that's the best place to turn it all around. Be friendly, be outgoing,be honest and make some friends...there's nothing to be afraid of or ashamed about....everybody has problems it's how you deal w/things that defines how you are... that's how you build character. If you're sad,depressed,quiet that's how you'll feel and how others will see you. But if you're upbeat and positive you'll feel better and others will see that as well and want to be your friend. At home everybody I know including myself has had chores and work to do...you're part of a unit and if one doesn't do their part the unit falls apart. I know it's tough but try to see it in a positive way...like if it weren't for me the laundry wouldn't get done and you wouldn't have clean clothes to wear,or I'm making supper tonight..I'm a great cook. You aren't the first person who has had this type of struggle and you won't be the last. I know it's rough w/your parents getting seperated but there's not much you are gonna be able to do about that. And they won't say it probably, but they need you..both of'em now more than ever and you need to be there for them. And to do that you need to be the best you that you can be starting w/yourself and do what I said about school first....everything is always easier and better with friends. And that positive part of your life will overflow into other parts of your life that are not going well and before you know it all these problems you have will seem like nothing. You can do it....I believe in you and I'm sure others do as well !! You've taken the first step and told me a complete stranger about your troubles and I didn't reject you and I hope I've given you somethings to think about. I answered you because YOU ARE WORTH IT, whether you believe it or not you are!! So get positive and pick yourself up dust yourself off and be the best you that you can be. G.

Answer 3

tell your mom how stressed out you are about how much responsibility you have and that you think that too much housework is contributing to this. Also because you need more time on your hands so that you can join a club at school.

Most people who make life long friends from school meet those friends in a school club or activity such as soccer, art, choir or band. Pick something of interest and get into it, you will find some great friends there who you can lean on in rough times such as this.

Good luck

Answer 4

join a team at school or a club. In other words get out of the house communicate with others it will do you some good then you can burn off all the energy wasting away on the inside of your body..

your too beautiful to feel blue:)

Answer 5

I think you answered half your question, "you're a young teen", there's alot of things your gonna encounter soon enough, and no offense, but you have'nt been on this planet long enough to be that depressed already, ya still got a long to go, enjoy the peace of mind while you can before you join the rat-race.....relax

Answer 6

When I was your age, I used to feel the same way but things get better. As for your parents, they have to do what's best for the marriage & sometimes that means going their separate ways. By no means does that reflect on the love they have for you.

Answer 7

Have you tried calling Kids Helpline to talk/vent it out?

http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/

http://www.geocities.com/EnchantedForest/2910/hotlines.html

It may help....

Maybe you can try taking up a hobby or joining an organization like volunteering? It's a good way to meet nice people and do a good deed and feel good about yourself.

Answer 8

well i understand how you feel, i use to feel like that when i was in school........ things will get better as you get older, if you ever wanna talk to someone, who is a female and understands you can IM me or write an email

Answer 9

Try talking to your parents about that or you can keep a journal depression is tough you have to be strong...

Answer 10

HI, i know how you feel! i have been there! and if you wanna email me then hey! go ahead and i will tell you how to feel better if you need advice .