What's the big deal? Shouldn't the question really be what would the spouse walking in do: sit and watch, join in, or go about their chores?
2007-03-11 12:29:23 · 2 answers · asked by Bart Simpson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Surprising as it might seem, in this day and age there are still people that have issues and questions about something as natural and simple as self-pleasure.
It's not a "big deal" at all to anyone with a mature, fully-developed sex life.
When we got married, we were "smart." We discussed our sexual desires/preferences and that just made everything so much more open and satisfying.
But, I guess some folks just don't have it all worked out, so they come here and ask questions.
Hopefully, they receive honest, sincere answers.
2007-03-12 04:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the misconception are : [1] if you masturbate then what for having a spouse?
[2] if your spouse can do the job for you [ satisfy you ] then why masturbate?
[3] they just don't want to hurt the feeling of their spouse by DIY !
for those who have spouse, why not get them to masturbate for you? it would be better n greater feeling than just confine to oneself ! anyway its perfectly nothing wrong if any one of us masturbate !
2007-03-14 07:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by ng 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋