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Question

whats a nice way to let my guy know that i'm not getting enough out of when we have sex. i want to be more open with him and about what he can do to make it better for me, but i don't want to hurt his feelings.

Answer 1

Men are dumb and they need things spelled out for them, unfortunately they are also really proud and sensitive on the topic of pleasing us. You just need to sit him down and tell him that as much as you enjoy your private times together that there are some things that he can do to make it even more fun. Tell him that once things get better for you they are sure to get better for him. Men also like rewards and are goal oriented. Then you need to spell out what you want, if you want him to go down on you more or how to do it, whatever it is that will make you happy. Sex has to be enjoyed by both partners or the relationship is doomed. You may find that he is open to anything you say and then, WOOO, the possibilities are endless. That will make him a keeper! Good Luck.

Answer 2

Men have pride. You don't want to crush his ego or things will get worse for him, and that's not what you are aiming for. Let him know what feels good for you (positions, him going down on you, more foreplay...whatever it is). If you tell him what else want him to do in the heat of the moment, chances are that he'll do it. Most men want to please their partner because that adds to their egos. Avoid telling him that the sex isnt good enough. Just correct him and direct him. If something is causing you pain, if he cant get it up, or if he is too fast, then you may want to talk with him about it.

Answer 3

You need to start by talking about sex outside the bedroom. Discuss it in a non-sexual setting. Be open and honest, and be ready to hear some things from him. Once you have figured out what each other wants and needs, you can begin exploring how to go about it. He is not a mind reader, you need to tell him and show him what you need.

Answer 4

Right im a guy so im going to spell it loud and clear!

I tell my girlfreind to just say if she dont like something or just tell me what she loves, I really dont care! I tell her never to fake it because it will just make a situation when she wont get anything.
She cums about 7 times now and she squirts!

Ok here is a good trick for you anyway demand oral sex from your bf, just do it! its hot! and tell him not to stop untill you have had your "multis"

Aka your first one, that way he wont know u aint been having em and maybe lieing!

Just tell him to lick faster, more, or suck seriosly just tell the guy! second in bed dont fake it just say nah it didnt happen for me this time would u go down on me?

He will slowly start to last longer maybe but only if he thinks ur not orgasming!

"Girls who fake lay awake! and girls that dont rock there boat!"

Answer 5

The best way for you to let him know that there's more he can do is to show him. Next time you're being intimate take his hands and place them where you want them on your body. You could also masturbate together. There may be some things that you could do for him too.

Answer 6

bribery! lol. ive been with a guy who does not like to give oral, and he makes this pretty clear. so i got used to it (and still give it to him). but recently i was like, this is crap. so i started to do it, then stopped and asked him what i would get in return. he explained that he doesnt like to do that. so i said ok, and would not continue. he was so desperate he was like ok!!! and i got it. its fun when you're a little demanding. and also, if he starts to do something that u like, make sure u say that u like it. so he'll know to do that more often. its ok to direct the action!

Answer 7

come out and say hey why don't we try this.....