Told my wife( that I seperated from last week) that I would look after our daughter this afternoon so she could go out and have some time to herself. We still live in the same house. She went to her boss`s house !!! She says she`s not seeing anyone. Should I assume that they are doing it ?
2007-03-11 11:54:36 · 12 answers · asked by pedro_penedro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, unless you have solid evidence that they are.
You know this is coming: Besides, you are separated. What would it matter? Do you think there is a possibility you are going to get back together?
Maybe she wants to make you jealous. I think your concern should be of your daughter. Girls and Young Women need prominent father figures in their lives to help avoid situations or running to another man-which could be what Mom is doing. Be that good role model for her and maybe you can learn from your own mistakes.
Good Luck.
2007-03-11 12:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by pinkchicchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that since you separated from her, she wants to go out and show you that she is her own person and can attract a man. I would not assume at all they are "doing it" but that she is going to her boss's house because she knows it will make you jealous. Very few men or women would know what they want, and it sure is possible they are having sex...but to assume it is silly. You have no right to say she shouldn't...I'd be very careful if I was either you or her about having sex now that you are separated if you get back together, either one of you could have a nice little STD that you don't know about.
2007-03-11 19:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by mark63049 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be quick to assume anything. Things are not always the way they seem. However, it does seem odd that she would do that. I would want an explanation. Could that be the reason why you separated?
2007-03-11 19:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL...just ask her why she went there first. That is a little wierd so be skeptical, but don't accuse! Allow her to come forth! She better have a logical explantion and if it sounds shady then she is sleeping with him!
2007-03-11 18:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hell do you care?
you seperated from her and now you are worried about what she is doing?
go get a life
2007-03-11 19:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, they could be friends or they could be discussing work but i would look for signs, like broken condoms or when she gets back if her hair is diffrent make up smeared or sweaty orrrrr summin like tht
2007-03-11 19:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her and him and if you still think they are watch for signs but dont me wired about it and make her think thats what shes doing...
2007-03-11 18:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by erin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to have some proof that she is going out with some one else b4 you start to doubt her.and what do you care if she is going out with someone.
2007-03-11 19:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzmine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your place to assume anything.... and that living arrangement you have needs to be ended as well, gotta move on....
2007-03-11 19:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if she's doing him or not! You're the one that left HER, she can scr*w him as she pleases.
2007-03-11 18:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋