Should I tell my mum I'm pregnant?

Question

I'm 13 years old, and up to now I've been like a good-girl child. My mum and dad r soo proud of me, but i was drunk n i didnt no wat i waz doin n now im pregnant. should i tell my mum or do something bout it?

Answer 1

Defeintly. She'd be even more mad that you didnt tell her. Just tell her now and get it over with so that she can help. being 13 you will need more medical help since youre not fully grown yet.

Answer 2

Hey i am 14, and i know how it would feel if i had to tell my dad or mum hey i am having a baby i left pregnant i girl...
Tell her it is difficult but someone told me life is a cake. Try to eat raw eggs(horrible), flour(horrible)... But even do at the end does horrible ingredients make a delicious cake.
What means, you got problems big in your life but at the end all those things take you some where.
You did something wrong, now learn from it stand up straight and get better, stronger, Don`t even think of aborting that child or adopting. That would make another mistake, yes life would be difficult but god is with you. Remeber my answer, I wish luck. Please man you would not like to be aborted, or adopted, is the most beutifull child i know and god send you it. Remeber this all your life, and pray god always hear you and know when is the moment to help

Answer 3

1st,Baby girl...let me just tell u that I'm in no way going 2 judge or dog u.Shoot,the things I've did..I don't have that right.4 yur sake,I hope u have the relationship w/yur Mom that I did mine.We were best friends.{everything!!}Anyway,I'd really encourage u 2 tell her.I got preg. when I was just barely 16.My Mom knew that I was preg.But,we decided not 2 tell my Dad til I was like in labor or whatever.Not until we had 2 anyway.&,culdn't hide it anymore.Especially since I loved my bf.&,didn't want'm dead.U know what I'm talking about.But,I ended up in the hospital & lost the baby.My Mom had 2 go home & tell Dad that night that I was admitted in the hos.,that they had 2 do a surgery on me the next morning,& I was preg.&,even though til this day my Dad's never even mentioned all that happened.I know it hurt'm very bad.&,I culd only imagine how betrayed he must've felt.&,if I had it all 2 do over again...there's no way that I ever wuld've kept this fr/him.&,hurt'm like we did.He shuldn't have had 2 find out that way.&,I shuld've gave'm the benefit of the doubt that he {no matter what!}loved me.&,I shuld've gave'm the chance as my parent 2 b there 4 me.So,hun...yeah...sit down w/yur Mom.Talk 2 her.She may surprise u.After all,she does know what it likes 2 b young.&,Don't beat yurself up.Any of us can make a mistake.Justb love yurself.&,if love yur baby.{if u decide 2 have him/her.}Take care of yurself.&,good luck!*

Answer 4

Yes you should hun. It's going to seem painful and very awkward, and there will probably be crying and yelling. But if you don't tell them, it is going to make everything worse. Explain to them that you made the mistake of drinking, which led to you having sex. Tell them how badly you screw up. They should help you try to sort this out. If you get an abortion, they should know about it and discuss it with you, not find out about it later on from some one. If you decide to keep it, then you need to talk to them about caring for it. Or there's the possibility of adoption. All of these should be discussed with your parents. Remember, they will love you no matter what. They may seem angry or hurt, but really, they love you and want whats best. Don't listen to anyone who says don't get an abortion. It is your decision, your body, your baby. Good luck with talking to your parents.


This is an edit to Jen(above me): You shouldn't be pushing ideas down her throat. It is her decision if she wants to abort the baby, not yours. It's great that you have beliefs, but really, this is hard enough on her. Also, don't bash her for drinking. You say your 15 and don't drink, but I bet you've had a drink before. Most kids these days drink, and she knows she made a mistake. So lay off of her.

Answer 5

i knoe it might b very hard or whatever but it is better if YOU tell them now than if they find out later through some other person or evn by you,. They will be even more hurt if you hide it from them and they find out because you are gainign a big belly. Just tell them as harda s that may sound becsue it will make the rest of the road down wayy easier.

Answer 6

Yes, and don't wait. You need to get to the Doctor and plan what you will do. You NEED to tell your Mum. Don't you think 13 is a little young for "drunk and doin the nasty?"

Answer 7

Absolutely tell her. She will be disappointed, cuz you are really young. If you are talking about an abortion, as young as you are, she may not be opposed to it.(I still don't recommend it in general, but given your age and the circumstance...)
From now on tho, stop drinking. Really. Get a new set of friends. Make smarter choices. It is NOT too late for you to change.
Blessings to you, Sweetheart. My heart really goes out to you.

Answer 8

DEFFINITLY TELL YOU MOM
i knwo it seems weird but moms always will understand no matter how bad you are
just sit her down and this is exacly what you tell her

mom i know i made a bad decision and i really need you right now and i need your support on this because im to young to deal with this all by myself, i got drunk nad did things i shouldn't have and now im pregnant, i know it was wrong and i made a bad decision but right now i really need your support because i dont know what to do.

Answer 9

No offence but you shouldnt have been drinking. Your not legal. I am only fifteen so I dont at all. You kind of have to tell your mom. Ya she will get mad most likely but she will help you. Are you thinking of aborting it? That is wrong. The baby has a life to live now that you could possibly take away. You have to tell you mom or talk to a trusted adult at school. It is confidential so they wont tell. Get their opinion. I am sorry this happend to you so young but i think that you need to tell you mom, not that you haev to but need to!

Good Luck, I think this will help you!

Answer 10

YES TELL YOUR MOM. Hi i'm 13 to.
Listen the worst thing you could do is not tell your mom. She probly will be really mad at first but then she WILL come around. I'm not pregnet. But you should take my advice. If I were you I would get an abortion. Well TELL YOUR MOM. you might be scared but it will feel good to get it off your chest.