Summer break is approaching...and I don't want it to come...I have the best girlfriend in the world...we both have a lot in common...and we love spending a lot of time together...problem is, I only get to talk/see her at school because her parents don't want her talking on the phone to guys or going out to see guys. The moment summer break comes...I'm gunna have to go a couple of months without seeing or talking to her. What am I going to do?
2007-03-11 11:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by Dakota 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The choice of what to do is all yours.
If her parents are that strict and won't let her out to commune during the summer, you have to respect that. As wrong as it may seem, uit's their right to raise her as they see fit. Some parents can be quite overbearing when it comes to daughters. I'm assuming you're both probably middle school or Junior High age, right?
Well, then you have to decide how to cope with the summer long absence. There's always e-mail or will her parents allow her computer time? If not, you have to find somehting to do to keep yourself busy. Also, you have to try to find ways to keep the feelings you have for her alive in the months you don't see her. And that's up to you..
Perhaps you could make sure you have a few pictures of her and ask her to write you a nice long letter expressing how she feels and maybe what she thought were some of the highlights of your past school year together.
I'd also get on my bike and ride by her house a few times.
But my young friend, don't stop stop living because you can't see your girlfriend.. Try your best to enjoy the summer as much as you can. It's your summer break, too. Stay active;, see friends. Maybe even get a part time job. Go on vacation with your family. Go visit cousins. Hang out wherever you hang out. Stay active and when the summer's over and school starts again, you two will either pick up exactly where you left off.......OR you begin the new school year free and single and looking for the next conquest.
Either way, you'll survive. I promise.
2007-03-11 11:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow it seems like ur gonna have a major problem.. hmm this is a tough one. Well, maybe it is time that her parents know that she has a boyf because, after all, she is going to grow up and they cannot see her as a little girl forever. If they do not let her out at all, well can she sneak out or is she too far away from you? At least these days we have texting, emails, IM, etc, but i understand, it is not the same when you are in person. if you both really want to see each other, then you will both make an effort to do watever you can in your power to see each other. eventually her parents are gonna have to know.. Goodluck!
2007-03-11 18:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cheerios17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy so it well seem to go by fast. Nothing much else you can do.
2007-03-11 18:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll find a way of contacting you.
hang in there. if it's true love.........you 2 will beable to work it out.
2007-03-11 18:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some balls think man
2007-03-11 18:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋