Are me and my friend just growing apart?

Question

Ever since she got with my (long chain warning) friend's friend, it doesn't seem that me and Erin are talking much.

Any time I try to talk to her, it ends up lasting from about a half second to six.

I don't feel any other connection. It might seem that she's trying to ditch me, 24/7.

Even lunch sucked without her.

I don't feel anything between us anymore. I think she's lost interest in me since the day we were supposed to see a movie together (like around November or something).

But what's happened? Has all focus gone to her boyfriend?

Someone tell me what the Hell is going on?

Answer 1

you need to tell her about it. basically just tell her what you just told us. if you used to be good friends then she will listen to you. You cant wait forever to talk to her though. maybe you should write her a letter if you dont think she will listen to everything you say.

Answer 2

she is probably so "into" her boyfriend that she doesnt notice that she is doing it. you should talk to her about it and if she doesnt want to talk about it than you should find another friend. I know that it seems mean but if she will ditch you for a boy than she isnt worth the friendship.

Answer 3

Didn't you ask a question about getting revenge on this Erin?
i think you should just move on.

Answer 4

well first i want to say that you should talk to her and about whats going on.from the details you said im guessing right now all shes intreasted in is her bf but if and when they breakup if your there to support her then things will go back to usual.good luck and be patient

Answer 5

You could be falling or growing apart. It happens alot with teeange girls... trust moi. I've had it happen to about 7 friends of mine. Well with us teenage girls we tend *my friends and i* to ditch our friends when we get boyfriends,

Answer 6

It happens. Time to move on.