Sometimes I wish I were a white male so I don't have constantly face the prevailing racism (people pulling eyes back yelling "ching chong", or saying I have a small penis). What's worse is that I even have a bleaker future in the dating world, where we are considered unattractive due to vicious stereotypes.
" I feel cheated out of a myriad of romantic experiences that could have been brought to fruition were I not an Asian male. Being an Asian male is like answering the first five questions on the GRE incorrectly; you're not totally screwed, but you have a lot of ground to make up.
The reason behind this is that historically Asians have been invisible in American media, with a few stereotypical exceptions. As a whole, Asian males have either been portrayed as overbearing, or more frequently the opposite: effeminate and obsequious to white (and therefore better) men. Asian females, on the other hand, have been depicted as servile and ready to please."
2007-03-11 11:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You really only have one option. Since you can't become a white male your only choice is to have a sex change and become the servile Asian female that you described. After the sex change you can have all the white males you want.
2007-03-11 17:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im an Asian girl and i've been teased with ''ching chong'' behind my back loudly by Indian girls too k? see, we're being teased by our fellow Asian people too, you're not standing in this situation alone. so what if you have a small penis? you beloved will never care.
the problem in the dating game is that white guys always asked first, they dare to take the first step while you just shy away, be a man, dont shy away. i find Asian guys are always too shy to ask the girl out and you're hearing this from an Asian girl k?
i know we Asians have always been look down upon by others, so show them how we really are insted of complaining.
and sorry if i offended anyone who read this.
2007-03-14 06:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by getting_bored 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Asians won't be going around banging a girl every night, but do you think we were designed for that? Sure having sex and being a player are fun, but that's not what's really important. If a girl is gonna dump you even if they think you have a small dick, and even if THAT is true, someone who is real would NEVER do that to you. Aren't you satisfied with finding just one girl out there? That shouldn't be too difficult considering there are 6 billion people in the world.
2007-03-13 07:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by BUNguyenI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to mellow out. If you have issues about being asian go see a counselor on how to deal with your problem. There are other caucasians out there who know that not all asians are subservient, feminine or whatever. I know some asian males who are hot looking. Just don't be so upset.
2007-03-13 09:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by emaciated asian chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really an Asian?
You keep asking questions and posting answers that degrades the reputation of Asians. And "ching chong" or whatever it is, is used to the Chinese.
2007-03-13 01:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Reaper 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Im proud too:
1.i hate my language, food, culture,etc
2.i look down on my own nationality man
3.i only date whites
4.i wish i would be borned white
Oh by the way im an asian girl!!! :)
2007-03-13 20:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm Asian and I'm pround of that
2007-03-13 16:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♡Ling♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋