Ok.If you have a friend who thinks they own you,and you have to do what they say how do you get them to leave you alone and stop.And im the kind of person who isn`t very good at telling someone to stop.But if someone tells me what to do i woul totally try it.
2007-03-11 11:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by britt 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stick with somebody else and keep away from her. Try to stand up to her and say you don't want to do it. You shouldn't let people push you about because it's your life and people shouldn't be butting in and trying to use it to make their life easier.
Find another friend who treats you like a friend and not a toy. If you don't want to, try to talk with her. But if she won't stop then you really shouldn't be bothering to be friends with her. It's a waste of time and you probably won't get anything out of it.
2007-03-11 11:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that aswell. u can either just try and avoid her.. which never proply works. or say 2 her 'i still want 2 be your friend but your just getting a little bit clingy and i think perhaps we should also see other friends as well. Im sorry if this hurts your feelings, but i stil want to be your friend and i cant proply be your friend unless im honest with u' if she's really your friend she might be abit angry at first but she'll value your comments :] good luck xoxoxox
2007-03-11 18:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what you feel. What their doin' is bulling you. You need to act, and fast. Tell them what you think and tell them that you dont like what thier doing. Then say a good friend won't do something like that. You need better.
2007-03-11 18:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gilly! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt and straightforward. Tell them that you don't want to be friends anymore (if that is the case) and to leave you alone. If you just want them to stop bossing you around, then just tell them how you feel and stop listening to everything they say.
2007-03-11 18:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking to them. i am in the exacttt same situation with like my ex-second-best-friend. she was being really annoying and bossy so i jsut quit talking to her. and she got the message. so ya jsut do that and dont let her boss you around. if it comes to the point where you're just so fed up with her--stand up and yell in her face in front of everyoneee. she'll be embarassed and feel bad that she treated you so harshly.
2007-03-11 18:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a part in friendship to give or to take an advice......but you have a freedom to do what do you want or what you do believe is right.just tell them you appreciated their concern as a friend, but they should understand that you got your own way to handle things in life.
2007-03-11 18:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend? Wow, tell her that you already have a mom and to go buy a pet to order around!.... .. and then blush and giggle ..
2007-03-11 18:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them 2 stop bein so bossy and controlling.It aint even that hard!!!!
2007-03-11 18:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Colts Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET BOSSY-or every time they tell you what to do bark first so they get they aren't you owner
2007-03-11 18:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well write a letter to her about how you feel! if she don't like that don't be her friend any more.
2007-03-11 19:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by love1011392 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋