Can I please leave this world?

Question

I want to leave this world. I am not as strong as you people. You people can have fun and do fun things. All I am is broke, poor, overweight and in debt.

You people are stronger than me. Everything works out for you, nothing works out for me. Why am I here, and what is the point of me being here.

I just can't live anymore and I need to move on. You guys have a future in this world, and I don't. All I am going to be is homeless. I am 21 years old, and I have a messed up life. My life is miserable. I am ugly and unattractive.

What is going to happen to me after I die

Do you think I am going to heaven after I die?

Answer 1

Maybe you should start by changing your attitude. Negativity breeds negativity. Read the Secret and know no matter how hard life gets there is always someone else out there worst then you.

Life isn't easy for most of us, but you find ways to deal with it and move on up the road.

Answer 2

I mean this in the nicest possible way, but if you are 21, it's pretty likely you've only barely scratched the surface of everything that is life. Most people don't begin to truly think for themselves and form a solid, distinct identity until they're in their teens... would you believe a nine-year-old if they told you that they knew what the world has to offer?

My point being that you probably shouldn't give up just yet. At least take a decent look around before you walk out on the show. But if you don't like what you're seeing now, then by all means don't stand in the same place looking at the same things. There are lots of ways a person of even no means can send his life in completely new directions:

Go on a journey somewhere... many people who arrive at a fantastic place find THEMSELVES there. Join the military service of your choice. Maybe you'll shoot somebody, or maybe you'll save somebody. Volunteer for the Peace Corps or some other international charity organization. Few things can help you appreciate how much you really have like being around people who literally have virtually nothing.

Or take smaller steps, if you like. Spend just a weekend away from yourself. An evening at a soup kitchen. Curl up with a good book and make your own world in your mind.

The world is such a varied place, I find it hard to believe that there isn't a place for you SOMEWHERE in it. You just haven't found that place yet. Keep looking!

Answer 3

Don't think we're all happy and have good futures. I'm not going to sit here and tell what to do or what not to do. That is something no man should ever be able to dictate. I will say this though. Is your life that bad? I know I've thought that way for awhile, but are you sure you just haven't focused too much on the bad? Take a minute to think. Don't sabotage your thinking either. Really think. What are all of the good things in your life. It doesn't matter how small they may seem. Good is good. How many people have you helped? How many times have you laid there an just felt content? life isn't always what it seems. You may think it seems too bad to deal with, but a lot of times people miss the good things that we all take for granted. It'll be okay.

There are organizations out there that help people get out of debt. They can help you.
There are things you can do to lose weight if you commit to them ans try.
And just because you think you're unattractive doesn't mean that someone else does. Try to be more loving to others and sooner or later you'll begin to love youself more too.

I'm not advocating anything either way, just take some time to sit back and think. It's the best thing you can do right now.

Tell me, if you really think life isn't worth living, than why are you here on this website? Your subconsiously trying to get people to help you, meaning you still have hope. Don't give that hope up. Hope is all any of us every really have.

Answer 4

You know what? I bet you're stronger than you think you are. For a lot of us, we are our own harshest critic.

When I first read your question details, I'm thinking, "Hmm. I also am broke, poor, some would say overweight, and I'm in debt, too."

What keeps me from plunging into the abyss? Sometimes, not much. Sometimes I'm standing on the cliff looking for the slightest excuse to jump. Just the other day, I was driving on a slippery road, asking myself why I've tortured myself for 5 years to put myself through school as a single parent, accumulated 25K in debt doing so, and all that education is going to do for me is qualify me for a $9/hour job? WTF is the point? I was thinking about what I could say to my daughter, what kind of arrangements I could make for her so that the next time I was slip-sliding around the Plainfield curve, I could just crank the wheel and careen off a bridge.

When I get to feeling like that, I breathe deeply. When I can, I close my eyes or cry as necessary. And I sleep. And I write about it. And I talk about it, even if the person I'm talking to doesn't care or doesn't get it (which is almost all the time), verbalizing it all helps me work it out in my own head and heart.

I've come to realize, I think, that there really is no point. In a sea of billions of people, so few of us are going to do anything of import, and if we do, it'd go unnoticed and unappreciated anyway.

Now, I'm not over all the inner conflict - far from - but I try to approach each day as an opportunity. I look for little things, like the first late winter/early spring morning I wake up to the sound of birds, the first time I notice the sun is higher in the sky. I have realized that the only way this world is going to have any meaning for me is if I create that meaning myself.

It sounds like you have a lot going on right now - a lot of challenges, a lot of self-doubt. You know what? I don't know you, but you have made mistakes. We all have. It doesn't make us horrible human beings. It makes us "paintings in progress." Your canvas does not have to be done. You can keep painting on it. My guess is you can still make your painting beautiful. You just have to give it a chance. I know it seems sometimes like we try and try and try and never have anything to show for it, so we want to quit. Life wasn't designed to be easy. There are challenges everywhere, but along with those challenges are the opportunities that lie right behind them.

I apologize for this very long-winded response, but suicide is a big deal. It's permanent. Usually, misery is not. Even if it lasts a long time, misery is not necessarily forever. Death is.

Hang in there.

Answer 5

why don't you find out for yourself, get all the money you have, buy a gun and shoot yourself in the head, easy, fast and the only way to be sure what is really out there when we die. do me a favor, just in case there is such things as heaven and hell, send me a hint or a signal of some sort so that i can do good things and go to heaven. i don't want to be wasting all my time doing good deeds just to find out that heaven doesn't exist. i am not promising that heaven really exists, and if i was god i wouldn't put you in heaven because you didn't even try.
if you really want to live in this world, then stop moaning and start taking control, every body's lives are hard in some ways, we just try our best. i will be 20 soon and i am going to university, i haven't found any job yet and if i don't, i will probably not be able to go to university and if i don't go i will never be able to be a pilot in the RAF. life sucks dud, we humans were born to struggle and to suffer, that's why we are creature of extreme beauty no matter what we physically look like.

Answer 6

I am in my twenties, and also poor, overweight and in debt. I have almost 20,000 dollar in student loans (the government always gets there money) and no degree to show for it.

It sucks...yes it's true, but do you want to know a secret? It doesn't last forever and its not completely out of you hands. There are lots of resources out there even if you don't have friends or family to help you.

Why give up? Death is so final. Its a permanent, unchangeable solution to a temporary problem.

Since it looks like you have asess to a computer at the moment try looking up services in your area (unemployment offices, shelters, food banks, etc.)

Please call the # below for help. It always nice to have someone to talk to.

THINGS WILL GET BETTER WITH TIME!!!

Answer 7

I think the main reason You are discouraged to fight those bad thoughts is because many people find you ugly. I know that because I met someone who was rich but he was very unhappy just because he was ugly and didn't want to get out of his house until he went under surgery.

Why don't you consider yourself dead and live Life like you were a "ghost" -- and nothing can hurt you because you are already dead. Give it time and continue working hard so that you can have enough money to fix what you want. Money can change many things.

Heaven , Hell -- I couldn't care less... what is important is your life -- just living it is a success (remember .. we are survivors )

Answer 8

First of GOD don't make ugly! Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and get up and do something ..lose that weight and find a job so you won't be broke. you're only 21 and you have the rest of your life ahead. Things WILL get better, but if you decide to kill yourself...YOU WILL NOT GO TO HEAVEN!!
So if you think you got it bad herejust try to off yourself and you're going to find out what misery is really about. That I PROMISE!!!

Answer 9

Well I agree to disagree with you! Are you saying that if a large number of people really miss you and cry from their heart for you when you die then you have earned more than a person who has less number of people who really miss him/her and cry from their heart for him/her when he/she dies? In that case every VIP will be considered to have earned a great life and all those who toil selflessly for the good of others behind the public eye will be considered to have lived worthless lives! Nah! That is not the yardstick by which we will be measured when we leave this world! We will be judged by what good we have done in direct ratio to what we were given by fate!!!

Answer 10

I don't believe in Heaven. I don't believe that your life is so bad off that your only way out is death. My life sucks too. Not all of us are "strong" I can't fix things.
If you're so miserable, lose weight. Get some diet plan or other. And if you don;t already have a job, get one.