Just a few years ago I used to feel so good about myself, I'll even say I was full of myself. I would turn heads everywhere I went. Ever since I met my husband 2 years, I lost it! I gained a little bit of weight which my husband tackily pointed out (even though he has gained lots of weight too), then my confidence went down, and even now when I go through the whole makeup-hair-outfit process I still don't feel good about myself anymore. Also, not to mention in 17 days I turn 30 which doesn't help to think I'm not in my 20's anymore. Plus it doesn't help my husband checks out every female with boobs that walks past him. (That never used to happen with other guys I was with before). HELP. How could this happen to a confident girl like me and what can I do? And to top it off my husband keeps saying not to worry because I'll go back to being a size 0 again soon (which at my age I know my body is not going to change back to my twenties!!!)
Aghghghghghhh...................
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2007-03-11 10:43:50 · 3 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
There's my point people!- That was my husband who answered (Luca)!!!!!
Luca-get it in your head your wife is not meant to be a size 0 anymore- unless you want me to start puking after every meal!
2007-03-11 11:21:35 · update #1
We all change as we age. None of us will ever have the body of a 20 year old again!
The thing to strive for is to be healthy. Exercise and eat healthful foods.
We all have self doubt at some point. What happened to my youth? All I do I clean house, work and shuttle kids around. What about me? In the worst case it drives us to have an affair, run of to Aruba or buy that fancy sports car.
We just need to accept that our lives change and make sure we make time for ourselves. And we need acceptance and help from our spouses, not criticism!
The woman in the mirror may be a bit older and weigh a bit more, but she should still have all the confidence that her younger self did.
Good Luck!
2007-03-11 22:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by paintingj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are hot looking, and you will lose those ten pounds you have gained, just do some exercise, for instance you do not even walk six blocks to work...
2007-03-11 17:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need some stimulating herbs
2007-03-11 23:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋