me and my best friend like the same guy. i haven't told her but she has told me. what if he asks me out? should i say yes? should i put love in front of friend ship?
please help me!!!
2007-03-11 10:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by live.laugh.love♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont say yes if he asks you out.
Never choose a boy over a good friendship. There's no point in ruining something good for something that might end soon or might never happen.
You already know that she likes him so just let it be. One unwritten law of friendship...you never go out with your best friend's crush.
2007-03-11 10:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this olny leads to trouble... you and yourbest friend like the same guy. if he asks you out she WILL be mad... you should say no or you WILL lose a friend, over a guy that you might not be with in say a year... "i put love in front of friend ship?"
sometimes but not this time...
2007-03-11 17:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by girl_of_your_dreams_1331 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really is your best friend I would say to turn him down if he asks you out. But that's just because that's what I would do if someone my best friend liked, asked me out.
2007-03-11 17:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together with her asap and tell her. DON'T just sit her down and be like "listen up. i like this guy." just bring it up casually and say "yeah..well...i'm really sorry, but i think i like him too." she'll HAVE to understandd..right? ok ya and if he happens to ask you out just do what you think is right. I would say yes, but if you feel it's not fair to your friend jsut simply tell him that: "ok i really like you, but my best friend does too, and i dont think its fair if i do that to her." but still, i would say yes. just think waht SHE would do:: probly say yes, even AFTER you told her you like him.
good luckkk
2007-03-11 17:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..friendship..wow..well if he asks you out the first thing you say is "Name of guy" "hey my best friend likes you as well as I do , can we take her with us out to the movies etc" see where it goes from there, maybe he has a friend sho might like your friend it all will work out but make sure you let him know ok..friends first guys second unless your married..
2007-03-11 17:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no don,t say anything until u talk 2 ur bff some guy ar jecks and they ar not what losing ur bff over
2007-03-11 17:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by lilmissyin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with them on books, movies..
2007-03-11 17:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Atila a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋