how long should i wait to have sex? asap?

Question

right now, im 14

Answer 1

You only get to give the precious gift of your virginity once. Make sure it is someone you truly love or you will feel very disappointed in yourself that you wasted it on a scoundrel.

Although its very very uncommon in this day, waiting until you are married is very special and so worth it. Your husband will appreciate knowing that he is your only one.

Answer 2

If you have to ask, you should wait awhile before having sex.

Most 14 year olds do not have sex. The world won't come to an end if you don't. If the guy leaves you because you say no, he wasn't worth it anyway - he didn't really care.

Wait a few years. Your first time is precious and should be done when you're ready, not from peer pressure.

Answer 3

I really do think 14 is too young, you and your partner do not have the emotional maturity to handle everything that comes with having sex.

But I also do not believe that you must wait until marriage. You will know when you are ready to have sex, and it should never be because you feel you have to, or pressured to. And believe me, if you were ready to have sex now, you wouldn't be asking us in the internet world what we think. So wait, wait until you feel completely ready.

Answer 4

14 seems a bit young. I'm 18 and haven't lost my virginity yet. It's a huge emotional decision as well as a physical one. If you think you're prepared to deal with the emotional consequences, then that's fine. At least make sure you're physically prepared. Go to a Health Center, ask about condoms and other forms of Birth Control.

Answer 5

Wait until you are in a commited relationship and old enough to live on your own (18) and support a child (probably even older than that). No birth control is 100% effective. Babies aren't fun 24/7. They are a joy but also expensive and exhausting!!

If someone is pressuring you, get rid of him. He's not worth it and sleeping with him won't "make" him love you.

Answer 6

You do not necessarily have to wait until you are married, but you should wait until you are ready for the consequences that come from having sex. You should be old enough, and mature enough to be responsible for your actions. Don't feel that you have to rush into anything. I was 29 before I lost my virginity.

Answer 7

Well Yes Im 14 And im in a serious relationship ive been with my boyfriend a while and we have had sex it is a usual thing now :D
But make sure he is the one and you will definately know when you are ready i did :D
You feel safe and in love and he isnt using you for the sex etc .
Good luck x x x

Answer 8

until marriage. wait as long as u possibly can. that way u will know that u are saving urself for the man u want to spend the rest of ur life with and have babies with. and u will also know that u will have no STDs and no pregnency. just stay abstinent as long as u possibly can. and my band teacher told me once...6 simple words...always remember....boys are jerks sex is bad. lol. wait dear, just wait.

Answer 9

when ever you and your mate are ready 14 may be a little young but what ever just use a condom if you do dont have real sex until you are married and ready for a child.Dont rush it you will know when you are ready,promise

Answer 10

when you are 14 you are not ready to take on the responsibilities of sexual intercourse. You are young and your body is still growing. I think when you are mature enough to understand what you are taking on by having sex, you are old enough.