Okay so whenever I mention I wanna lose some weight or that I'm on a diet people start saying stuff like 'girl you're just fine' or 'are you serious?' or 'you must be kidding'. The thing is I know I'm fat! Maybe not size 12 fat but I know I don't look like the pretty skinny girl and I know there are some flab to lose!!Sometimes they make me feel like I must have BDD or sth!! They all see me as a very pretty attractive nice shaped person when I see my self as an average chubby person! What's wrong with me.. or them!?
Why do people do that?! Are they tryina make me feel better or are they just blind?!
2007-03-11 10:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'm a size 6 :S I know!! I'm 126 lbs and I'm 5'4.. I'm ashamed!
2007-03-11 10:24:46 · update #1
i won't say anything ,but i'll qoute jon bon jov :-
from the song ugly :-
If you're ugly, I'm ugly too
In your eyes the sky's a different blue
If you could see yourself like others do
You'd wish you were as beautiful as you
And I wish I was a camera sometimes
So, I could take your picture with my mind
Put it in a frame for you to see
How beautiful you really are to me
2007-03-11 10:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by dr dino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? i would give anything to be a size 6 and weight 126 pounds. I am the same height as you but weigh 30 pounds more and wear double your size. Get over it. You are right in the middle of the acceptable normal body mass index category. You are totally normal and at a very healthy weight.
And just so you are aware, size 12 - 14 is the verage size of an american woman.
2007-03-11 15:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not blind...they are not buying into the crap that madison avenue is laying on us...Just think of all the energy that we waste worrying about how we look...and what would we do with that energy if we could have it back?
No one cares how you look cause they are too busy worrying how they look LOLOL
If we werent spending so much time worrying about our looks what would we be thinking about?
It is very sad that we feel unworthy or ashamed because of something like weight, etc when we are so much more than a dress size
we are caring loving human beings ...and the most remarkable thing is...men know this!!!!
i used to think i was huge cause i was a size 10 and so embarrassed about it...and guys would think i flipped my lid...now i know they really meant it
and it is awesome!!!!
sometimes all this worrying is really about something entirely different...
when all along we could choose to feell peace instead of all wound up
thanks for letting me vent lol
2007-03-11 10:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by enchanted mermaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are telling the truth. maybe you suffer from the same problem that most girls do. i know a lot of beautiful girls who think they are fat. they ask me if they are fat most times because they are fishing for compliments. send me a full picture and i can tell you and be honest with you because we don't know each other.
2007-03-11 10:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by lucifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people say dat jus to make u feel better, but others r telling the truth, it depends how they r saying it, but i bet your fine cuz ppls r saying your pretty.my friend is exactly like dat, shes soooo beautiful but she thinks shes fat.
2007-03-11 10:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable in your body than do what you have to do to make yourself feel better. I don't think anything is wrong with you or them they see you for who you are not who you think you should be. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 10:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by FaErYgIrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone has there own way of thinking so of course you are going to see somethings that other people wont see about you. so really they wont understand why you think that or why you see yourself that way. so dont worry about if you think that you need to lose just a few punds then ok, but dont go to crazy!
2007-03-11 10:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most people are just trying to make you feel better & honestly do think you are attractive and pretty. Take the compliment!
2007-03-11 10:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by SP 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't lose weight! u prob look great! being too skinny isnt healthy its anerick! luv the way u look! be proud that they think u r pretty!
2007-03-11 11:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just show us a photo and I'll soon tell you if you are a porker or not. Hang on while I get my anti-puke glasses...
2007-03-11 10:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Oliver T4 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋