theyve gone out before, and theyve broken up like twice....its was like a 5 month relationship
once they broke up he went out w/ sum1 else and was a jerk 2 her the whole time
but she still likes him
HELP!
2007-03-11 10:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Banana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave her alone and let her find it out on her own. Be her friend and be there when he dumps her and do not say I told you so. Sometimes we just have to see things for ourselves. And maybe he really does treat her differently when you are not around. Now, would you want her in your business all of the time? I know you are trying to be helpful, but back off for now.
2007-03-11 10:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should realize by now that he is a jerk. He don't deserve a girl like your friend. All he gonna do is hurt her feelings more and more if she let him. You should sit your friend down and lay your heart out to her. Let her know that you care about her alot and don't want to see her hurt again. I went through the same thing with one of my friends. And it took for my friend ex boyfriend to get married and have kids for her to realize that he was a jerk. So i wish you the best and good luck. She should let him go before its get worser.
2007-03-11 10:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥ H☮TMAMA ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of this is particularly impossible to no longer have her obsess over a guy, i do no longer think of any female might. She has emotions for him nonetheless, yet possibly you ought to tell her that she's exceedingly plenty no longer doing properly, along with her breaking apart with him/ or him doing that. He sounds like he would not choose to destroy their friendship (As you mentioned) and he might unlike her. yet, i don't be attentive to the whole situtation so, i might only say to be certain If she gets her concepts on yet another guy.
2016-11-24 20:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is her decision. When she cries and whines about it to you, tell her you have warned her, and what else does she expect you to do. She will have to be the one to end the relationship. I wouldn't listen to a lot of the crap either. I think some people like the attention they can get from others when they get into unhealthy relationships.
2007-03-11 10:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, i have the same problem with my best friend. she's been going out with this guy for about 6 months and me and my other friends have been trying to tell her that he's treating her like **** & that she deserves better. what you should do is just call her up & ask her to get together. just explain to her that this guy is just not treating her with respect and dignity. IF you really care for her, you would tell her exactly whats on your mind.
2007-03-11 10:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Santos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard to get someone to change their mind, not only can they only see themself with that person, but others see it and comment on it, putting pressure on your friend to be with that person. Try to get her go on blind dates. good luck
2007-03-11 10:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her learn from her mistakes.
2007-03-11 10:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by BUTTERFLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋