2007-03-11 09:50:44 · 16 answers · asked by briansquarepants_trumpet 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It can be either way for either one.
Females, not used to anything inside them, can feel stretching, and burning from the chemicals on the condoms.
Males can get squeezed so hard when a female orgasms that it hurts and/or closes up the hole so when we thrust we end up bending it.
But usually it feels pretty good.
2007-03-11 09:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should NOT be painful. Both women and man enjoy sex with either gender. Love is not vital for good sex, although it helps. Communication is vital to GOOD sex. Letting your partner know what you enjoy (or don't) is important. Listening to your partner is a key. It is true that there are people who enjoy pain few and far between) there are far more people who enjoy inflicting pain. Pain between consenting adults within clear boundaries, agreed upon in advance, and honored promptly is acceptable, but not the norm. Pain when not enjoyed by both parties is WRONG ethically, morally and legally. For the most part -women and men enjoy sex equally and there is nothing more fun and joyful than good sex.
2007-03-11 10:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a mental thing - not painful if done right and with the right person. Many people of both sexes seem to enjoy it. Watch reruns of sex in the city - you will notice 4 different attitudes about sex all by women.
2007-03-11 09:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by pilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be very enjoyable for both sexes given the proper... handling of it? Basically they both have to figure out what feels good for them and be in sync to each others' bodies.
2007-03-11 09:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ruthie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ensure you're utilizing lube - get KY. it may properly be very painful the first few cases. i became an identical way - my bf kept telling me to relax and that i became comfortable i became only truly small. you want various foreplay (jointly with oral - this enables lots) and also lube. there is no longer something incorrect with you... except perhaps an thoughtless better 1/2. If he has journey, then he could understand those issues already.
2016-12-01 20:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed you signed up today and this is your first question. I'm assuming this is the only reason you signed up. Let me just laugh a minute. *Ahem* If sex were painful, why would people want to do it all the time? Context clues and simple observation my friend.
2007-03-11 09:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it CAN be painful the first time but at the same time its pleasuable. and it is pleasurable for both people involvedd doesnt matter of the sex but it IS pleasuable
2007-03-11 10:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can be magical or can be sour.. when you mix it with love, tender and passion then comes out something delighfully remarkable..an experience unexplainable...but could be a terrible experince if not wanting it, for both sexes...sex itself is beautiful, sick emotional retards people make it a "sin" its The sharing experience for two beings...sex is wonderful never fear it and go with no hurry
2007-03-11 09:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by violz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not expert, believe me but I think it *could* be painful at first if a girl is being penetrated by a man and she is a virgin. Otherwise, it probably just feels gooooood.
2007-03-11 10:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should not be painful, and is wonderful for both parties.
2007-03-11 09:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋