My friend is having troble actually its my ex boyfriends sister. My ex is trying to make his sisters have sex with him and I have tried to help them get help for him. They have called the police and child services and apparently nothing is working. One of his sisters is 15 and she is pregnant and his other sister is 16 and neither one of them can do anything about him I have tried to distract him in so many ways but it doesn't work the only thing I haven't tried is having sex with him.... would that be a good idea??? I will do anything for those girls and even if it mean't getting pregnant unfortunatly thats what he wants.
2007-03-11 09:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Their parents already know this is happening and they aren't doing anything to stop it. They can't come to my house because my parents don't want to get involved but I just can't let him do that to his sisters and I don't know what else to do....
2007-03-11 11:33:42 · update #1
NO DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM... i know that it seems like a good idea to protect them but you need to protect your self too. I would ask your parents if the girls can stay with you to escape whats going on at there house since it doesnt seem like there parents care. Or here is a better idea, tell your school and they will handle it... they will either take him out of the home or take the girls... either way it will be handled legally.
2007-03-11 11:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that this guy is sick. I don't know why the police or child services haven't done anything. But That is the most you can do. Don't add on to the problem by including yourself. It will just make it worse. If the police, or child services can't do anything(which is impossible), then there is nothing you can do, physically. You might want to get help for your ex too. Try and get him to talk to a shrink, best buddy, dog. What ever you can do to get this guy treatment so this stops for good. It sounds like has and is the biggest problem.
2007-03-11 16:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by MR. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's a serious problem! But DO NOT have sex with him just to help them!!! First of all, it wouldn't solve anything and secondly, you'd feel degraded and demoralized...and you'd probably regret it.
Seriously, I would do a lot of research online about what resources you have available to you. Maybe enter a search for "your state" and something like "report juvenile sex offender". (I assume he's a juvenile...if not, leave that out.) I would also hassle your local police and child protection agencies. Have you ever heard the saying "The squeaky wheel gets the oil"?
Anyway, if that still doesn't work, definitely call your congressman! This is a serious situation for these girls, and the fact that neither the police nor child protection are doing anything about it may even be worse!
This is a link for senators by state...
http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm
This is a link for the House of Representatives, you can do a search by your state here as well...
http://www.house.gov/writerep/
Good luck!!!
2007-03-11 16:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't have sex with this pedophile! Report him to the local authorities or to DHS. If that goes nowhere tell the counsellor at your school. Hurting yourself, will do nothing to help this girls. Where are their parents? Do they know what is going on? This is a VERY serious question, these poor girls' emotional well being is on the line here, get them some help. But PLEASE do not have sex with this guy, it will do no good. Chances are this boy has been abused himself and is in need of some serious therapy. Just keep telling adults about this, someone will do something.
2007-03-11 16:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT have sex with him. He is basically wanting to have incest with his sisters. That is against the law. Keep calling the police untill they do something about it. Like mom of 4 said...DO NOT give up!!!!
He's a sick freak and I'd stay away from him.
2007-03-11 16:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cops are idiots. Tell those kids parents or tell your parents. Don't have sex just to get pregnant for the guy. He's not worth it.
2007-03-11 18:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep telling people! Go to teachers at school... go to family members (aunts, uncles, parents, grandparents) keep calling Child Protective Services... Keep Calling 911... Tell school counselors... go to a local church.... just keep on it! DON'T GIVE UP!!
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!! He will think that he can scare anyone into anything if you do!!!
Good luck sweetie!!!!
2007-03-11 16:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
chop his d*ck off. nobody will get pregnant. and yo know he wont do it again. no jk
ummmm get help for his sisters. ask his parents. call the police again. let the sisters stay at your place for a bit
2007-03-11 16:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by sambucca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell their parents!
if that doesn't work call human services, the state police, tell their school...tell everyone~ as long as you have to.... until he is taken far away from them!
and do not sleep with him ....he is sick and you do not want to have a baby with someone like that!
2007-03-11 16:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
eww, he's a redneck... but w/e, ok if u rather have sex with him then watch his sisters go through it, then do it. and mabey while ur having sex with him they can leave the house and go to the child service place ans like stay there or something..
2007-03-11 16:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋