My friend is having troble actually its my ex boyfriends sister. My ex is trying to make his sisters have sex with him and I have tried to help them get help for him. They have called the police and child services and apparently nothing is working. One of his sisters is 15 and she is pregnant and his other sister is 16 and neither one of them can do anything about him I have tried to distract him in so many ways but it doesn't work the only thing I haven't tried is having sex with him.... would that be a good idea??? I will do anything for those girls and even if it mean't getting pregnant unfortunatly thats what he wants.
2007-03-11 09:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please don't sleep with him! Don't do any favors for him that would give him the upperhand. Even if it would keep them out of trouble. You don't want to end up trapped by him. You said child services and the police aren't doing anything? How can they not! This is serious. He does need help, but apparently he's not listening. He doesn't sound like a reasonable person. Maybe the girls could stay with you? Just get them away from him.
In the meantime, I think you should really be persistent with child services or the police. Somebody! Anybody.
2007-03-11 09:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by newjerseynets_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to get out. If the police and child protective services are doing nothing (I assume the parents are doing nothing), then they need to leave. Stay with friends, other family members, a women's shelter, anything. Keep trying the police and child protective services. Sometimes persistence works. You sleeping with him will not solve the problem. All three of you need to stay away from him.
2007-03-11 17:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tapioca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this must be a very difficult situation, you should continue to call the police and child protection services, have a restraining order issued against the idividual, if you really will do "anything" the best option may be to hire a personal body guard for the grils for a few days or to move them to another house YOU NEED TO HAVE CHARGES PRESSED AGAINST THIS MAN, he is sick and needs to be locked away
2007-03-11 16:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by CuriousGeorge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? Either way, they should press charges on him, either rape, sexual harrasment, the police should lock him up. Call the cops again tell the sisters to press charges on him. Something should be done? Nooone listen call 311 and explain. Call the news, but do something. Don't sleep with the guy, thats not going to help at all. Good Luck
2007-03-11 16:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by shortylov21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You having sex with him isn't going to change or fix anything and you should NOT do it. If his sisters don't want to sleep with him (which I assume is the case) then he is raping them and that is a crime. They need to call the police and/or go to the hospital and report that they were raped and he will be arrested. He needs to get help and they need to get him away from them.
2007-03-11 17:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were already pregnant according to your other questions. Why are you wasting people's time with these crazy questions?
2007-03-12 21:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lil'Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would keep insisting on child services, police department, whoever will listen until something is done about it.
2007-03-11 16:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by prometida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, set him up, video tape him secretly, then call the police and show them the video, trust me its the only way.
2007-03-11 16:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by el_mex_vato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would print out flyers saying "______ tries to rape his sisters" and post them all over town....
2007-03-11 16:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slap him
tw&at the fu*ker i would if i saw him he needs locking up
2007-03-11 16:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by eddy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋