Getting married is easy. Staying happy is not! In one ear your mother in the other ear and your wife. It is matter of time that thorugh eating you alive they will meet in the middle! I hate married life! What would you suggest?
2007-03-11 09:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by BobbyFlash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know..... its a transition state so things are even more confusing. before males did not have any confusion - the rule was mommy is always right. now they are thinking at least. situation is more difficult for them. try to be neutral and for any issue decide urself what is right and whats wrong. tell the wrong person for this particular issue it should not be the way u think. still show her u love her. (mom or wife). also show u will not blindly follow some ones instruction just because she is ur mom or wife. u have a brain of ur own.
2007-03-11 09:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be it modern or old, Indian or foreign; the basic theme of a successful married life is the same. You gotta be a good manager, good listener, good speaker, good interpreter, good co-ordinator, etc. People who are happy with their marriages just joke about being enslaved to wives or husbands. When it comes to their own practical experiences, most of the couples enjoy their marraiges.
So don't generalize. Attain the wisdom, choose a nice comaptible partner, get married.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-11 17:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your apprehensions r bogus. Do not hate married life. It is a great blessing of God to u if u 're really married. Be religious even by minimum amount . Study & practice principles how to be soft spoken , simple person , happy & keep others happy, what to do good to others to achieve peace & happiness for u & people around u. How to be tolerant to keep others happy & satisfied. How to be popular amongst others, particularly for near & dear ones. If u 've answers to these questions in your practical life you will not hate any aspect of life whether marriage or anything else. Many persons do not marry because of some egoes or without them but they do not hate it.
2007-03-12 07:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for any successful marriage love, patience, sacrifice and trust for each other is important and as far as mother or wife is concerened u have ur own brains to decide who is wrong and right always support after listening to both of them if u ahve any problem.
and it depends on indiviual what u thin regarding marriage for me marriage is the most wonderful and important thing in life .
if u have wrong conception for marriage then its better u dont marry as u will always get what u think if u think good u will find everything good but if u find anything bad u will always find flaws so it depends on ur own mind.
2007-03-11 17:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by simran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tolerance is the watchword for a sucessful married life
2007-03-12 01:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad if both doesn't understand each other and its a heaven if both not only understand but have respect ,care,love and faith for each other.
2007-03-11 20:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Geeta B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a great deal of understanding and sharing also a great deal of sacrifice on part of everyone!
2007-03-12 01:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Infopath Manager! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋