I just tried out for 10 soccer teams. I only made one, and all of my friends made another. all of the girls on the one i made are really mean to me. I love soccer, and don't want to quit, and my parents said i need to make my own decision. What do i do?
I was on this team last year, and i hated it!
I tried to stand up to theese girls, and they laughed at me and called me a loser. the coach dosn't care. And my parents said i need to make my own decisiopn what do i do?
2007-03-11 09:26:06 · 10 answers · asked by star2bee1028 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are not going to enjoy yourself doing it then dont do it. playing soccer is about having fun.
play with your friends on your own when you can so that you can still keep playing.
2007-03-11 09:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by here-we-go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should really consider quitting that team. Even if you aren't able to join another team, you should get away from those girls. Listen, that group of girls are the real losers, and not you. They are probably just jealous of you for having a better talent than they have. Anyway, seriously consider quitting that team and go for another. Even if you don't make it to another soccer team, don't quit. Never give up is my motto, and it should yours just as well as everyone elses. So please, quit the team and go for another shot at another one. Take care.
2007-03-11 09:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something that you love to do then let nothing keep you from doing it. If those girls are bothering you...well it looks like they are doing it on purpose, so by letting it bother you then you are only giving them the satisfaction they want. But your parents are right, It is your decision and your decision alone...not just whether to quit or not, but if those girls are gonna get to your head. Take it as a challenge. Turn it around. (I dont mean make fun of them) but go out there, do the best you can do, show em you can rock that field rockin hard!
You go girl, fellow player
2007-03-11 09:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you had one shot, or one opportunity
To seize everything you ever wanted-One moment
Would you capture it or just let it slip?
You better lose yourself in the soccer, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime
The soul's escaping, through this hole that it's gaping
This world is yours for the taking
Make you king, as we move toward a, new world order
A normal life is borin, but superstardom's close to post mortem
It only grows harder, only grows hotter
Lonely roads, God only knows
Too much for you to wanna
Stay in one spot, another day of monotony
Success is your only option, failure's not
tell your parents that this trailer's got to go
And you cannot grow old in Salem's lot
So here you go is your shot.
Feet fail you not cuz maybe the only opportunity that you got
''You can do anything you set your mind to, gal''
2007-03-11 09:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by ogopasana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay in the soccer team if its something you love to do i wouldn't give it up if your trying to get back at the bullys i wouldn't do it in a physical way or that would just make you the bully this has happened to me before but not in soccer i just ignored tham and walked away like i didnt hear them if they are hurting you in a physical way like punching or kicking i would talk to your parents or coach about it but dont do it back to them or theyll blame you for it.
Hope that helps!!!!
2007-03-11 09:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to deal with the same issue on my soccer team. You just tell them off and show that your the bigger person. By getting upset and aggravated shows them that they are going to be able to push you around even more. Ignore them and do the best that you can. I believe that you are a strong person with good intentions don't let a group of girls push you around. You are you don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
2007-03-11 09:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Abby E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't let these girls bully you out of something you love to do. Just because they won't grow up is no reason for you to let them discourage you. Mark it up to immaturity. Just concentrate on doing your best at soccer and hang out with the friends you like when you can. Screw those bullies. They will get theirs some day. Carma ya know. What comes around goes around. Good luck.
2007-03-11 09:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate it, no reason to stay and be miserable. I'd say stick it out and try and make friends, but if you were on this team last year and were unable to make it work, I see no reason to put up with another miserable season.
Keep looking for another team or opportunity to play, and keep practicing your skills. Also, maybe try out for another sport - you might find something else you love.
Will they let you practice with the team your friends made? If not, maybe practice with your friends in your spare time to work on your skills. Your friends should be willing to help you out.
2007-03-11 09:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should practice every day for 1-4 hours a day, and then when your really good, quit the team,and try out for the other 9 teams and try your luck.
I hope you make it
2007-03-11 09:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by eddie st swimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents are right sometimes we dont like what our parents sayrember we been in a same situations our something like it . follow your heart is the love for the sport outway the meaness of the other girls if so give it all you got you might bee beter than the other snoops .
2007-03-11 10:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by rod_chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋