Its a small prob with my girlfriend but I feel so sad and I feel like my heart is broken even after being so nice to her Im asking my self why is she doing me like this, I just need some guides what to do in a situation like this
2007-03-11 09:19:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anton D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Exit stage right...if you allow your self to harbor resentments and or hide you own feeling you are not doing right by your self or the person your are involved with. little problems become big ones if you can't face them..be honest with yourself and your girlfriend.
2007-03-11 09:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by MorogSkut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a unbalance relationship to me. Means u r the 1 contributing 101% of u and she probably doing much lesser.
Sometimes, over attention to e 1 u luv may result in reverse reaction. Not that u don commit but be mature in handling relationship. Things like if u know is wrong to gv or help her, insist on yr principle. Cos by giving to her or u can do anything for her sometimes can hurt a relationship instead of impressing her.
Her reaction to u could spell that she could have total control of u and even she would mistreat u, she'll know that u would not mind somehow.
Adjust or fine tune the way u handle her, doesn't mean u don pamper her but do it wisely , she'll respect u eventually! Cheers.
2007-03-11 23:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are agonizing like this over a small problem? Get a grip! There are always problems and SOME are even big ones. Don't sweat the small stuff.
2007-03-11 16:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in a simular situation and i already know that my problem is fear, low-self esteem and co-dependency. If i could overcome all that my bag would be packed right now!!! No one deserves to be disrespected and abused!!! Good luck to both of us.
2007-03-11 16:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she leave you? if so and she had no good reason..then why would you want her back? sooner or later she'll do the same. If she treats you bad tends to make you feel bad without reason I say move on get yourself another girlfriend.
2007-03-11 16:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why agonize if she did you wrong? Why not be angry and realise she's not worth you. You say it's a small problem, if it really is that small, then talk with her and learn from it.
2007-03-11 16:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is doing you in a way that you don't like then perhaps you should leave her
also throw away your heart if its broken
2007-03-11 16:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first calm down is not the end of the world if she is like that she is not for you and she don' deserve you like that. so try to start loosing interest in her.
2007-03-11 16:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOING THOUGH IT TOO GUY! MOVE AHEAD! JUST MOVE AHEAD! AND LOOK AT WHAT IF IT HAD HAPPEN AFTER KIDS MARRAGE LAND YEARS SO THANK-GOD AND MOVED AHEAD! TIME HEALS FOR LEFT MINE 2 DAYS AGO! AFTER 8 YEARS!
2007-03-11 16:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by tommoore66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont work cuz she obviously doesnt love you, sorry, no offense to you. keep looking and try to find your true love, one that loves you back. if she is doing you like that, then she isnt good for you, move on. keep looking.
2007-03-11 16:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by pantsfoxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋