Ok so if it is another woman, or hes already hurt me, then how do i approach this kinda thing with him? Hes going to b calling in a bit and it will be the first time in a (since he left) that we have spoken about this situation. I want to save this marriage. I love him dearly and I know he loves me. I know it will hurt but he just needs to tell me what the hell is going on. we have four kids all together. Now he took his son and is gone. He was the daddy my girls never had, and we have a son together. We bought a house. I know we could have a good life together.
2007-03-11 08:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, you have a problem, what if it is another MAN? Let him go, get a divorce, get on with your life. Him sleeping around is not OK, for all you know, he has started a new family. Good luck.
2007-03-11 09:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressure him to honesty. You deserve to know the truth, no matter what the truth is. If he cannot be honest, a marraige will anyway be near impossible. Try to stay civil so that you could still have a friendship later on for the sake of your children. May God give you the wisdom and strengthh to deal with this. Good Luck :)
2007-03-11 16:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAS MOVED OUT OF THE HOUSE,HE'S TAKEN HIS SON,AND YOU KNOW IT IS ANOTHER THE WOMAN THAN IT IS OVER. THE BEST THING FOR THE CHILDREN IS FOR YOU TWO TO REMAIN CIVIL AND FRIENDS. PLEASE DON'T SELL YOUR SELF SHORT.YOU HAVE TO SET THE EXAMPLE FOR YOUR GIRLS.THEY NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU KEEP YOUR HEAD UP ,KEEP YOUR SELF RESPECT AND NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS.AND ONCE HE SEES THAT YOUR WORLD DOESN'T STOP BECAUSE HE IS GONE THAN YOU ENJOY THE CHILDREN ENJOY LIFE AND BIGGER AND BETTER WILL COME.AFFAIRS NEVER LAST. BE A DIVA AT ALL TIMES.............
2007-03-11 16:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by nursediva1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of writing this to strangers on the internet TELL HIM THIS, communicate, he's your husband dammit you need to talk, get councilings, don't take the easy out.
2007-03-11 16:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad he does not share your feelings...
2007-03-11 16:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋