2007-03-11 08:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My marriage survived an affair and it was one of the hardest and saddest times in my life, affairs rip out your heart and pulls your world from underneath your feet. But there is hope...with God's grace, I was able to forgive and we walked a long road to rebuilding our relationship. Today, we have a special marriage, we learnt from mistakes and are closer than ever.
2007-03-11 08:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Issabella 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, our marriage has survived an affair. It happened 1 yr ago this April. I found out in May though. Our marriage now is so much better then it ever was because we are honest and completely open w/ each other now. There are some ruff days still but I try to not stay focused on the past and just concentrate on what we have now and our future. But, it is difficult and sometimes like I said very hard. I still have my bad days, but I aslo have our good days! Best of luck, my heart goes out to you!
2007-03-11 09:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by jpsmne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife slept with a man from her job about 5 months ago. We split up for a while. We are back together and it is very hard. Every time I look at her I think of the affair. I don't trust her anymore and my days are filled with sadness. I wanted it to work but I don't think it is. This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I have even thought about suicide. I probably will end up devorcing her soon. Having an affair is one of the worst things a human could do to another.
2007-03-11 10:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer this for myself, but one of my best friends had an affair a few years ago and she's still married and it's stronger than before. Of course in her situation, she finally realised how immature, possessive and stupid the other guy was. *shrugs* It depends on the individuals involved. Some marriages survive affairs, others cannot.
2007-03-11 08:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sinclair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a good friend who's wife left him for another guy she met on the internet. After about 6 or 7 months, she is now wanting to get back together. I will tell you this, BOTH of you should get counseling for yourselves individually and both as a couple if you plan on getting back together. There are reasons why marriages split up. It's time to discover why. If you both can do that, then your marriage will be stonger than ever.
2007-03-11 08:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Gary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my marriage has survived after an affair. For the most part, things are ok. There are tough moments, but we are making it. Its a lot of hard work, but i think we will be ok.
2007-03-11 08:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my marriage survived an affair. It was a grueling experience, but I had a lot of support from family and friends. I forgave my husband and we have rebuilt our marriage. It is better than ever.
2007-03-11 08:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an affair with a guy I worked with...it almost destroyed my marriage...as of right now, my marriage couldnt be better!
2007-03-11 08:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by east2west92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My marriage survived for another 8 years. We got divorced because I could never really trust him after that one time. He also told me that he loved me but was not in love with me.
2007-03-11 09:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Joan G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband confessed to cheating 4 times this past nov06-jan07. he said the first time he was drunk, second time thinking with his little head but felt really bad about it and 3rd and 4th cause she wouldnt stop hounding him and me and him werent doing well or doing anything. he said he knows sex isnt a good excuse that its 100% his fault but that he did tell me things were wrong in the relationship but i didnt listen. he confessed on his own end of january. i gave him second chance cause he could have hidden this from me. and we have 2 small babies together. so far its been a month and things are slowly getting better but it is hard. not a day goes by where i dont think of the other woman and him together. plus it doesnt help that the "other woman" has gone pyscho and stalks me and harrassing us since she really wants to be with him but got mad that he broke things off so soon and changed jobs, cell phone numbers, lost all contact. she got my number tho so harrasses me this past week. hopefully your situation is different. but im sure this is gonna make us stronger cause since this is happened we are finally communicating, improved sex life, and committed ourselves to God. With God all things are possible.
2007-03-11 10:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by maylene1852 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋