I know a girl that nobody likes, and she has like NO friends. I am basicly her only friend. But I barely talk to her, I am barely considered her friend. She tries to dress preety... no offence but she is kind of fat, has boobs (but basicly becuase she is fat), and has Body Odor almost all the time. One time in Math Class She lifted her arm up to ask something I noticed some armpit hair!
People consider her really wierd because she loves This ONE Cartoon Chariacter. Should I talk to her more? Should I give her advice? Becuase I think she would like some but I dont wanna hurt her feelings...
What should I do? Thanks ahead of time for answers!
2007-03-11 08:41:59 · 3 answers · asked by Cool_Dude 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Get another one of your friends to do this with you:
Have a sleep over, call it a makeover party. You can pretend to give your other friend a makeover too. Before hand make sure you have a list of things to do for a makeover from simple to complicated (simple would be wash and put on deodorant, shave, complicated would be dress well etc..). You could even give her the makeover stuff at the end of the night (good soap, body spray, etc...). She could win some game to get the prize.
If you do something like this you could help her out without hurting her ego.
If you do have to talk with her straight up then don't tell her the makeover thing was a ruse. Just talk to her straight, be Sensitive! She probably knows about these problems already.
You might have to figure out something creative about the cartoon character. Maybe you and your friend can really talk up a band or something more modern for her to like. If she has a picture of this cartoon character on her binder, ask her if you could put a picture of this band on half the page or something.
Sometimes straight up is very beneficial. I had some experience with this as a teen. Straight up didn't work for me. Since she considers you a friend it might work.
I think the makeover party would be worth a try though..
You know her, it's your call.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-12 18:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think being fat is the problem,maybe buy her a perfume set and wrap it or something that way she wont take it as you saying "you smell bad"
depending on what you say she should get the message"i wanna be your friend"
if you dnt know what type ask your mom.then become her friend and just bring out the other stuff in conversations.
2007-03-12 09:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-14 20:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by 789512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋