2007-03-11 08:41:42 · 14 answers · asked by happyaston7 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
U AINT ALONE?? I LOST MY PARTNER,SUDDENLY.AM ON MY OWN& VERY ALONE.COULDNT GAIN HELP,AS ON BENEFITS?BUT HAD TO SORT FUNERAL,HOME,BENEFITS& LEGAL HELP[COS,IM GAY) WHICH HAS BEEN ANIGHTMARE AS LEGALLY IM A NOBODY IN THIS WORLD,AS DIDNT HAVE ACOMMITMENT CEROMONY?? IDIDNT KNOW HE WOS GOING TO DIE!! WE WERE VERY HAPPY TOGETHER FOR OVER 12 YEARS.BUT AS NO SERVICE OR VOWS BETWEEN US?HIS PENSIONS & POLICIES GO TO NEXT OF KIN?WHEN THEYVE HAD NO CONTACT FOR OVER 14YEARS,& THEN REFUSING& LYING TO THE CORONER ABOUT ACCEPTING HIS BODY? SAYING I HAD AGREED TO(WHEN I KNEW NOTHING&HADNT SPOKEN TO THE FAMILY,OR EVEN BEEN SPOKEN TO)? LEGALLY REQUIRED TO NOTIFY BIRTHS&DEATHS ETC,& TO ACCEPT BODY & ARRANGE FUNERAL& BURY? BUT NOT ENTITLED TO ANY HELP FROM GOVERMENT BENEFITS AS RECEIVING INCAPACITY BEN,NOT MARRIED TO HIM,YET EXPECTED TO ABSORB COSTS OF FUNERAL,& ALL BILLS? TONY BLAIR IS AN IDIOT!! BUT MY PARTNERS POLICIES GO TO THE FAMILY?NOWT TO ME?OR EVEN A PORTION OF HIS OWN POLICIES TO BURY THE POOR MAN?? WHICH I PRESUME THEY EITHER KEEP-OR NEXT OF KIN HAVE.IM EMOTIONLY DRAINED,LOST,SAD,CONFUSED?AS MY WHOLE WORLD HAS VANISHED,,,,, HOW AMI SUPPOSED TO CONTINUE ONWARDS& ALONE.........
2007-03-11 09:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by lee e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Has something happened recently in your life to make you feel this way. Perhaps you need to sit back and think about what you want with your life. It may help if you can make a 5 or 10 year plan. Talk things over with a friend or close member of the family. Phone a confidential helpline if you are feeling desperate or even suicidal. Remember that there are people who are prepared and willing to help you.
2007-03-11 08:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beanbag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i understand you. Sometimes i feel that way as well. Try to think abt things from your past..some happy thoughts, things that make you stronger etc. Then just think abt the future a bit, something that you always wanted to do..basically focus on yourself for a while, and then reach out to your family. You'll soon find your way again :)
2007-03-11 08:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by crazyorangefish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel lost from time to time too..
(maybe because i am moody person)
but i kick my self out of it...
just think of those
important people in your life!
or maybe the important things in your life...
think of the happy things in your life...
that is what life is all about...
((NOT money and what other people want and think))
good luck!
2007-03-11 09:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a direction in life find something you enjoy and are reasonably good at you are in need of motivation my guess is that you lack support from family and Friends seek out people in whose company you feel at ease and life will improve. hang in there.
2007-03-11 09:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club!
2007-03-11 08:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not the only one feeling like that, life is very always hard even for the rich and famous
2007-03-11 08:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by bluestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had feelings like this....& I know you feel all alone but can you chat with a best pal???...or family???.....you must have some direction in your life...some purpose????....what are your goals???....what do you whant to achieve???....can you turn to your religion????.....throw yourself into work...sport or pets???...voluntary work????...read self help book????....I worked it out & I am a kid!!!!!....get yerself sorted....yu will feel sooooo much better....take care...Bea
2007-03-11 08:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your other one.
2007-03-11 08:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a plan.
2007-03-11 09:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋