Why should I choose between the two?? Both serve a purpose in my opinion. Today one of my friends says I should pick a side and stick to it. Currently I am dating a woman and have been for the the last ten months and have decided to go out to lunch with an ex ( a male). It will not end up in sex. Tell me i'm right. She is watching ????
2007-03-11 08:30:58 · 11 answers · asked by always wondering 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She is absolutely wrong and so ill advised. I am a female 28 and I love both. I get my fun and excitement by both parties just the same. You have to go with your feelings babe not what other people think works for them .
2007-03-11 08:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by carol r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm very plenty a bisexual individual. and that i be attentive to many bisexual persons. i'm sexually, and emotionally attracted to the two genders. I certainly have been in love with the two genders. you're spectacular, it would not be classifies as homophobic, yet particularly, biphobic. yet! i do no longer think of you're being that the two, I only think of you're searching for expertise. be happy to e mail me in case you have any questions approximately my sexuality, using fact i'm bisexual, and that i'm very actual. ---- To Zachery, my male fiance is Bisexual, and that i've got a number of bisexual acquaintances who've had intercourse with the two genders. ---- Bisexuals are no longer nymphomaniacs... at the same time as some are (and so are some on the instant and gay human beings), maximum are no longer. this is a daft fact and that i wish some day you study the reality.
2016-11-24 20:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only downside to bisexuality is that everyone will feel sexual tension around you. most people only have to worry about sexual tension around people of one gender. plus the opinion that bisexuality "isn't real" is even more widespread then the equally wrong opinion that homosexuality "isn't real". so you're gonna have to deal with all that. but it's your life, really just be with whoever makes you happy, don't limit yourself for any reason.
2007-03-11 10:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u have feelings for both men and women, you dont have to choose...being bi is perfectly fine, and if u truly feel the need to choose later, then go right ahead...but right now, it doesn't matter, just live ur life the way u feel most comfortable living it..
2007-03-11 08:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 26 year old female and i am bi i love men and woman for different reasons o yeah and i am married to a man that i love very much if is very accepting with my life style and we have alot of fun with it so no you don't have to choose
2007-03-11 09:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to choose. Gender roles, homophobia, monogamy, its all a load of crap. You should be with whomever you want to be with, if they want to be with you. Love is love and you can't define it by limiting it to one gender. The same goes for sexual attraction.
2007-03-11 08:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, there is no reason why you should haveto pick at all....There is absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual, why deny yourself any options you may have.
Good Luck!
2007-03-11 08:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to pick a side when you're bisexual. You should be with who ever you're capable of falling in love with.
2007-03-11 08:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right..
Find a good man to care for you and invite all your girlfriends over for 3somes...
Best of both worlds...
2007-03-11 12:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to pick you are who you are dont let anyone else choose your sexual orientation. Be yourself ..
2007-03-11 09:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by itsthebeesknees123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋