ive tried masturbation to calm myself but its seeming not to hav a effect anymore should i jus go hav sex?
2007-03-11 08:27:59 · 23 answers · asked by reise w 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
At 15, I would advise you to stay from having sex with a partner because of the dangers of STD's, not to mention predators.
Continue with masturbation - you might have to do it more often.
2007-03-11 08:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by SarahLynne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start lifting weights or find a hobby to distract yourself from having sex. What I did to get rid of the urges was I went to a shelter for young adults that had kids and weren't able to support themselves and I volunteered there. I realized that I could end up here if I did go have sex and end up a daddy. I was not ready and still am not. I found a good friend and me and her are kind of everything but sex buddies. Relieves the urge but does not involve pentration. If you can find a girl that doesn't mind anal, give it a try.
2007-03-11 19:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jared J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really need the urge to have sex then calm down and distract yourself by performing some hobbies. In the process, you might meet somebody that you are attracted to. Don't move too fast by wanting to get in her pants on the first date. Get to know her first. Making love to someone is a special occasion that you and a person you love share. Sex is not just for recreation.
2007-03-11 15:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by jracer524 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is to make sure you are truly ready. I am a parent, and would never suggest premarital sex, or unprotected sex. However, I am not your father. If you and your girlfriend are both very sure that you are ready, then talk about it with each other. If you do decide to have sex, be safe. There are many STDs out there, and having a baby at your age would be a great struggle.
2007-03-11 15:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, having sex is not the right thing to do. You will open yourself up for even more problems, STD's and pregnancy just to name a few. It is common for young men to have these feelings, you should make a conscious effort to not look at things that may cause these feelings (example: porn, lingerie adds etc..). Nature made a way for these feeling to be kept in check (the wet dream). Don't over stimulate yourself and you should be just fine.
2007-03-11 15:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make yourself stronger through self-control.
I work in a gym - you make yourself by controlling large weights. Yourself - inside of you, call it your soul, gets stronger also by dealing with weight that feels too heavy. If you just give in to the pressure, you don't get stronger, but weaker and that much more likely to give in the next time - until you end up addicted, poor, and alone.
Don't do it. Save yourself for you life partner.
2007-03-11 15:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definatly not. Go volunteer at a day care for a day and then see if your ready to have sex! It's worth the wait.
2007-03-11 15:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniemdwyer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well wat i can tell u is think about things that might happen to u if u start having sex espeacially in a young age like 15. well u can have a baby wit a girl and u wont know wat to feed the baby.ur family will be ubset. so control ur self cuz u dont wanna have a baby in 15. u wanna have sex after ur married.
2007-03-11 15:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by hoppz5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hold it right there...im 16 and still a virgin.yes sometimes it gets tough but its best if you just stand it for the right time...mastrubate more if needed but i dont think having sex for now is the best option...at the end YOU decide
2007-03-11 18:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female?? Just curious, I have heard when guys are going through puberty the sexual urges are unreal lol.....just masturbate more!! lol
2007-03-11 15:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋