My bf's little 12 year old brother (will be 13 in a week) is a perv and wont leave me alone!!!!!!!He calls me and everytime i see him he hugs me cause his face reaches my chest so he hugs me really tight to touch me.........(im 14)
2007-03-11 08:04:31 · 27 answers · asked by luckylove713 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Have you told him what he's doing makes you uncomfortable and is totally inappropriate (particularly the chest-level hugs)? Have you discussed it with your boyfriend? If you haven't, you could confront the younger brother and tell him, if he continues such behavior, you'll tell his older brother.
And if both of them ignore or laugh off your discomfort, maybe it's time to find a new boyfriend or enjoy being a single and developing young woman - after all, you're only 14. There is SO much more to life than boys. At that age, so much self-discovery and identity formation are going on. Learn to define yourself as an individual in relationship w/ family and community before defining yourself in relation to an intimate partner. You'll be a far stronger, smarter person for it.
Yay for you for speaking up about this! It is all too often that women's bodies are objectified.
2007-03-11 08:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just seat him down and tell him u is to old for him and that u are not into 12 year old and that I go with ure old brother and u need to stay in a child place and if that wont work tell your bF on him and how u fell and what he been doing.
2007-03-11 08:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by saniyamack14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing at the age of 12 this boy hasn't had much contact with girl (that way) this is the ideal time for you to be adult. Sit him down and tell him that there are boundaries between boys and girls and explain to him that what he does is inappropriate and makes you feel uncomfortable. If you shout and scream at him chances are you wont have a bf afterwards. So just be calm and talk to him.
2007-03-11 08:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is talk about it. With him, and your boyfriend. You shouldn't have to be subjected to a 13 year olds hormones. Tell them both that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and that you want it to stop. Simple as that. Now i understand it might be a little weird talking about it, but that's the best way to take care of it. The best time to get rid of a problem is when it starts. Just be blunt about it and they should understand. Be bold
2007-03-11 09:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by MR. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes old enough to get slapped for that kind of stuff. B-i-t-c-h slap him. Or i guess u could tell him u'll flash him if he promises to stop touching u all the time. The choice is yours...choose wisely!!!
2007-03-11 08:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that his brother is freaking you out. And if he doesn't stop then you might have to not come around... That should tell your boyfriend something and put a stop to it. If not then you bf is a idiot and you should dump him anyways.
2007-03-11 08:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by avphoto1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember that happening to me not to long ago. i had a 8 y/o hold my hands, look me straight in the eye and then asked me to marry him. tell your bf to talk to him since its his brother maybe he can scare him into not going near you any more.
2007-03-11 08:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bend down when hugging him so he is face to face with you and tell him...love ya BUT KNOCK IT OFF!
2007-03-11 08:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell his parents. If he is doing that, he needs help, or possibly a LONG speech on pervertive behavior.
2007-03-11 08:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbellehottie139 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋