Better looking, talks sweetly, get everything you ever wanted or asked for, and laughs at you, and calls you names, and you are just a "crazy woman"? And everyone likes her?
2007-03-11 07:49:07 · 32 answers · asked by 360 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
weight? I hardly weight 100 pounds, and I am 5'7.
She IS better. I found the photos of them in 5 start Carrebean spa. You should have seen her posing this way and that in new clothes he got her! Yes, I do not wear silk nighty, we are paying for their holidays, no money for that...
2007-03-11 08:07:48 · update #1
Because its strange and different and therefore better. Even if she is ugly.
2007-03-11 07:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Its New Just Like When Your In A New Relationship Its Easy, Fun, And Romantic But After Awhile Its Just Not As Wild And Mysterious And As Someone Who Is In A Long Term Relationship It Sucks That Someone Else Could Come Along And Spark His Interest Just Because Its New And Fun, But If You Have A Good Guy U Just Have To Trust That He Loves And Respects You Enough Not To Be That Stupid
2007-03-18 18:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Mae ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty standard. A man will tell a woman she is crazy to cover up his own lies so many times she will start to believe it. You are the one that had to deal with a cheating partner, lies and all kinds of things that can make a woman upset enough to make a public spectacle.
Meanwhile the whore that stole your husband looks like the fresh new face that will get your ex away from that "crazy woman".. people can somehow look past the fact that she split up a marriage.
For the man, it's all about attention. The new girl hangs on his every word and tells him what he wants to hear. That too will get old and he will go looking for someone new.
2007-03-11 07:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he hasn't treated her "YET" like he has you. Take the years of putting up with his bad temper and neglect, along with raising his kids during bouts of flu and crappy diapers. She hasn't yet taken his paycheck and stretched it to cover all the bills and necessities of life and still being able to spare a few extra dollars to have a suds down at the local bar with his buds (most likely where she met him in the first place). His friends like her better because she flirts with them all and they are hoping he leaves her side long enough to cop a feel when he isn't looking, you already know all about them and they respect you. In the beginning before the ole woman or the *****, you were the wifey or the dear...if she's around long enough she'll earn those same titles your carrying around today. I walked in your shoes, but I can tell you I am happier today than he is, all those sweet little things he so desired didn't come close to all the years I took care of him and he found out the hard way...I have a new man in my life that calls me all the pretty names again and he thinks I am as pretty as a rose and there is nothing I wouldn't do for him. Forget about him. There is plenty of great fish out there
2007-03-11 08:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is the man married to you, and so you're referring to the other woman as one he's cheating with? If so, no,she isn't better. And she won't even be in the picture in a few months,probably.
But if you're dating someone,and now there's another woman in the picture, the craziness comment may come from his friends that think you should let go.
The biggest conflict in your life is always an angel in disguise. If this woman really can get under your skin, maybe she's trying to help you out by taking him off your hands,ya know? Is he REALLY a keeper?
2007-03-11 07:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by kcbarbieq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look better because the guy spends lots of money on vacations and spa's but not on the wife. The other woman is not cleaning the house, washing there dirty under where, going food shopping, or worried about the bills. She is fun because she has no stress and relaxed. Maybe if you were treated like the girlfriend they would like you better. I would pack all his clothes and send them to her place, after I cleaned him out financially. See how much fun she is when she is picking up after him.
2007-03-16 03:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it's a fantasy. It usually wears out in about 6 mouths. But why are you looking at pictures and paying for the trip? why haven't you taken the pictures to a divorce atty. and settle a nice case for yourself? She won't be all that great when he's broke, busted and degaussed. Have you ever thought about your weight being so low because of his cheating ways? dump him and get healthy, wear some nightie for yourself.
2007-03-15 14:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like saying the grass is greener on the other side...its not...look
1. Before we get married, we are the other woman, we are cute, sexy as hell and full of laughter and adventure...we listen to the silliest things our boyfriends have to say....and have sex on the beach or the couch; every night...not a problem. We get married and we start with this is right and this is wrong...food starts to taste real good, we put on weight...he is a Husband now, so he is responsible, he is not fun anymore...we are not as good partners as we used to be...my opinion, please don't be upset...I noticed that in myself as well.
2. When you get married to the best of ladies...you are guaranteed to go home, and do certain things...that you already know what it is and almost routine...when you are seeing the other woman, there is the element of surprise, the danger of getting caught...the newness...etc...
Men and women both fall into this trap...but if we are and I know we are smart...we must sense his needs and meet them anyway we can...not out of weakness but on the contrary...the utmost strength...
2007-03-19 03:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the "OTHER WOMAN" acts, behaves, and probably resembles the way that you USED to act before you put on weight, nagged about the trash needing to be taken out, questioned your husband's decisions, argued with him in front of other people, and started wearing flannel pajamas to bed instead of the silky little nighties you used wear.
2007-03-11 07:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me see,why the other woman is better?, cause she doesn't know the man, but you do,and like what the others says here,some men do think that their sex life is getting boring. So of course he will look for a fresh one even though that it will ruin his life with the family.
That what my hubby did,and now look where he is now, my 3 teenagers hated hm,lost the trust and respect as well as mine. So don't try and think that the other woman is better, cause that other woman is prostituting herself just to find someone that will pay her attention....
2007-03-11 08:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not better. She can't be better. And you are not the crazy woman.
They are both on their best behavior when they are together. They don't have to deal with real life. She is not better. She is an escape. And I have a special name for men who take their concubines to spa/getaways while their wife is scrimping and saving but this is not the place to publish that.
2007-03-18 14:05:52 · answer #11 · answered by Tip Top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋