He told me he would be back. However, he did not call me for at least 4-5 months. He tells me now, that I was a flower and that he loved making love to me and wanted to be with me. He never told me this stuff then and he never told me he loved me. He just said he had to go to college and he would be back. I feel a little used and hurt because I loved him and now I have moved on and found someone that calls me. Shouldn't he have called at least to say merry christmas or to say hello if he felt this way?
2007-03-11 07:44:44 · 18 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I asked him why he did not call all that time or at christmas he told me he did but my mother answered the phone and never passed on the message. I guess that could have happened. I don't know what to believe - he is very convincing and smooth.
2007-03-12 11:59:47 · update #1
You were used, walk away and never look back!
2007-03-11 07:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another fine example of how naive and stupid women can be! Here's a thought: Don't give it up without some sort of a commitment! Otherwise how else do you expect to be treated except as an occasional play thing?
2007-03-11 14:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were sold the first half of a good story and you bought it. And you have chosen to believe the story still has a justifiable good second half. You have already paid for the story, and you have the check book ready yearning to pay for the second half?
2007-03-11 14:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have called but it seems that he's so buisy that he doesn't take the time to call. Just be friends with the guy or just move on completely!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 14:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you for sex and that was it......it was all that mattered to him, and when you give it up so easily, they see you only as a easy lay, and I will get it again w hen I go back. When you are so easy and give it up so quickly....you obtain a name for yourself. I would suggest that you change your lifestyle, and start respecting yourself, and your body. Your body is yours, as well as you life is yours....you must do everything you can to protect your body and reputation.
Look ppl......the guys can't "GET IT" If she don't "ALLOW HIM"
2007-03-11 14:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terribly sorry, but you have been used.
Learn your lesson, and stop sleeping with guys who are "leaving soon but promise to come right back."
2007-03-11 14:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words...
2007-03-11 15:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jill L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't a little used, you were a lot used. Move on.
2007-03-11 14:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea he should have. That was very selfish on his part to come back and think that you should automatically be with him.
2007-03-11 15:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another booty call girl.
Im certain he will be back. When hes wanting to make another booty call.
The question is, will you let him use you like that?
2007-03-11 14:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋