Hubby keeps cell phone locked and hid all the time. Am I just a nosy witch or do i have reason to be suspicio

Answer 1

I think you have reason to be suspiscious. That's just wrong. My husband comes home from work and puts his hat, keys and cell phone on the counter...i'm free to look at it, use it, do whatever i want with hit and he doesn't care at all....I would get very suspiscious if he kept it under lock and key......there has to be a reason. I hope its not the reason that I'm thinking,,but you should ask him about it.

GL

Answer 2

Could be both.

You are a nosy witch, AND you have reason to be suspicious.

He can't keep the bills locked up from you - order printouts of the cell phone, credit card, and ATM card. Check his car mileage. A guy can't have an affair without a phone, a car, and some cash.

Get hard data before confronting him. The phone thing alone is a huge flashing red light, however.

Answer 3

Yes. I would say you're being nosy. Why is it that husbands and wives alike feel that they're entitled to absolutely EVERYTHING the other one does? Just because you're married doesn't mean that privacy goes out the window. Unless he's coming home 3 hours late a few nights a week, smelling like channel no. 5, and smiling a lot more than he used to, try giving your husband the privacy he deserves. Few things turn a husband off more than a wife who is always going through his things looking for a reason to be pissed off at him when he's truly doing nothing wrong.

Answer 4

You need trust in a mairrage. Also a certain level pf privacy should be there. It isnt about "you have nothing to hide from each other". It is just having a little of your own space in the world. If My SO asked to look at my phone or my email or anything "private" I would be really annoyed. Mairrage does not mean you give up your privacy.

Answer 5

I always say if you are not doing anything wrong then why are you hiding things?He is doing something and making it known to you by locking the phone and hiding it.Just tell him,if he has to do that and can not trust you to look then get rid of it,you may need to use it sometimes.I would tell him that makes you unconfortable.My wife looks at my phone all the time,and I do not have a problem with it,because I am not doing anything wrong.

Answer 6

Husband and wife should have nothing to hide from each other. Yes, I think he has something to hid, if not, why would he not want you to know. Bear in mind, this is one way a lot of cell users do to keep their phone from being invaded if it is lost or stolen. Ask him for his codes, if he gives it to you, then he has nothing to hid.

Answer 7

Have you asked him about it? I know my husband wouldn't lock his, but then again, I don't think I would check. I trust him. The way I look at it, if their going to cheat, then there is nothing you can do. I sure don't look for signs of cheating. But, with my ex husband.... it was a smack in the face one day. Just talk to your husband. Ask him why, and if he gets defensive, then I would start to wonder. Other wise, don't sweat it.

Answer 8

if you are feeling suspicious tell him you want to see it or use it and look through it. or when the cell phone bill comes in check the bill for unfamiliar numbers. if you find any get a phone card and use it to call all unfamiliar numbers to find out whose house it goes to. then you will know if your hubby is trust worthy.

Answer 9

If he is locking it and hiding it be suspicious. People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. My husband and I answer each others cell phones all the time. You are not just being nosey. Ask him what he's hiding.

Answer 10

Sounds like you have a reason to be suspicious.

Sign his phone up for detailed online billing. Check who he is calling.

Otherwise- tell him your concerns and tell him you want to see his phone- right then and there.