But what if he doesnt seem slightly interested in trying to tease me?

Question

He just jumps on or expects me to jump on, i know that sometimes just doing it is ok too and fun, but i dont feel any pleasure. And ive tried talking to him bout it. And all he can do is throw an attitude because he didnt please me instead of being understanding and take time out to pleasure me. I think i give up.

Answer 1

He's being selfish. When you do it, the two of us should be recieving and giving pleasure to eachother. Try this:
when you do it again. Make him want it bad then dont give it to him like you used to he'll probably get the picture of what you're trying to say.