How come when a woman cheats she can take that secret to the grave?

Question

But if a man cheats and she finds out, she's a big hypocrite about it and divorces him, nevermind her deep dark secret.

This is hypothetical for the ftards that can't tell.

Answer 1

I don't know about you but i like to brag about the fish i caught that and woman have ways of getting info out of our best friend probably laying him.

And your correct when a woman cheats they look at it as nothing but man cheats and hes should get 10 lashes and pay alimony the rest of his life.

Just face it its not a mans world anymore its a woman's world. Wont to bet our next president is a woman .

The bad thing is we have all these young wusses letting woman lead them around by the nose and the laws backing them. I think if there going to act like a man they should be treated like one.



All i can tell you is where screwed

Answer 2

well, for me I know what this question means.. Im keeping this secret to the grave myself. I guess when we make the stupid mistake of cheating and realize that our mates cant find out about it, the best thing is to take to the grave. The only problem is, we live with the guilt. I use to live with the guilt and I have to do my best to get rid of it,. Crying it out helped me and also praying about it.. I guess we finally open our eyes and look at the big picture.. If taking it the grave can help save the mariage then do it.. All u need is Gods forgiveness and not to EVER!!! do it again.

Answer 3

I think men are braggarts. They like the proverbial notch on their belts. What they don't understand is the woman that has been cheated on feels betrayed or degraded. She thinks everyone knows that he wanted more than she had to give and it's humiliating to her. Now a woman, she messes around with another guy and at some point it dawns on her what all she stands to lose if anyone finds out about this and she mummies up, not even telling her best friend for fear she will be called ugly names or thought of in vulgar ways. She thinks of his cheating on her as a slight on her as a woman but her cheating on him is just a very bad mistake she made on her part and had nothing to do with him as a man.

Answer 4

Because he got caught, and she didn't.
Because she believes that she cheated because of something lacking in her marriage, but he cheated because he's scum.
Women tend to try to justify their affairs more than men do, I think. They dig and dig and wind up with a whole list of reasons WHY it happened, what he didn't or did to to cause it. After time, the affair becomes justified in their minds. (I'm not saying men don't do this, I'm saying that most women don't realize that men's reasons for cheating are often the same as women's - something's not right in paradise). When a man is asked why cheated, his response often appears to be more superficial, or I didn't mean to, or I couldn't help it. So women assume that he just couldn't keep his pants zipped, while she had this 4 page list of reasons why she did it.

Answer 5

lol I think you need to check out your facts before you start on the case of a woman cheating and taking it to the grave or divorcing him..have you not noticed in your world that men also cheat,lie and divorce there wifes..or just walk out without telling the other partner what has happen and what they have done to be cheated on.What has made you ask such a question?

Answer 6

I guess women know better what is good for them and instead of blabbing about something they ought to be ashamed of, they just put it behind them and carry on. Men, on the other hand, need to gloat and boast and here is, I feel, the downfall. No wonder you'll find more men than women get caught cheating but the ratio of cheating genders is probably equal!

Answer 7

Er. No. that is not how it works.

If a person cheats and they never tell anyone and they never get caught then they take that secret to the grave. If a person cheats and they get caught then the consequences of cheating come into effect. (this is gender neutral as it applies to both sexes equally)

Answer 8

Beacuse a man/ woman wants their cake and eat it 2, a woman will keep alot of secrets from men beacuse not wanting to be judged.This is a topic that can go so may directions.who is wrong/right..fair/unfair..i feel a headache coming already.

Answer 9

When a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, does it still make a sound?

So see, if she cheated and no one knows, no one can prove it, no one saw it, did she really cheat?

If you cheated and didn't do a good job about hiding your tracks, women take that to mean you wanted her to find out because you don't care anymore. That is why a woman would leave. She takes it as her man didn't care enough about her feelings and their marriage to do his damndest to keep it a secret and to not do it again.

Answer 10

if a woman is so slutty that she cannot be faithfull and then punishes her hubby for the very same thing she does then she is not worth having. as a woman who is faithfull to her hubby, i do not know why some women do something like this but those that doare sick minded and in need of serious help.