Is there such thing as Fantasizing about Men, but not being gay?

Answer 1

Absolutely. Some degree of same sex fantasy is absolutely normal. I'd guess that denial of this probably causes people more harm than good. People enjoy fantasies of things they don't actually want to do in real life all the time. People engage in fantasy as a way of testing themselves, as a way of figuring out who they are. So long as it doesn't interfere with real life, it's normal and healthy.

Women have been known to have rape fantasies, but this does not mean they actually want to be raped.

Being gay means that your primary attraction is to those of the same sex. It takes a lot more than just a fantasy.

Answer 2

Well, do you want the mainstream answer to your question, or my take on sexuality? I'll tell you both anyway.

Mainstream answer:

Think about men when fantasizing 100% of the time = gay.
Think about men and/or women when fantasizing = bisexual.
Think about women when fantasizing 100% of the time = straight.

My answer:

Eventually you will know deep down inside of you what your sexual orientation is, if you haven't figured it out already. Besides, you're young so concentrate on a good solid education and your sexuality will develop as you grow. I should add that I fantasize about men on a regular basis......boobs are so creepy.......eeewww.....

Answer 3

Fantasizing about members of the same sex is perfectly normal. If you were gay you would not need to ask someone about it.

Answer 4

Sexuality is not a black and white thing. I dont believe anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay. I do think you should do some work examining your self and then accept whatever you figure out.

Answer 5

i say no but then i again i might be wrong since no one is 100% straight or 100% gay.

Answer 6

I would say that you're just curious but that it's more likely that you're gay or bi

Answer 7

yes, it's perfectly normal