Wife stoping me from seeing the kids(custody)?

Question

Right now no one is award custody for our children.But I was award child support by the courts(court order)because the
kids live in the neiborhood of the school,where i live.I live in the city and my wife live in the county.I have them doing the school nites,my wife have them doing the weekends.Last month my wife got her check garnished.Last week she took our son out of school from the city and put him in the school where she live.Now our daughter don't go to school because there no pre-k in the county school.Then her lawyer file for a hearing to reverse the child support.Before this happen the kids had a 7 month routine.Last friday we went in front a person call a master in the court room.He told us to come back in ten days
to argue in front of a judge.My lawyer ask to go back to the normal routine.The master said 10 days won't hurt the kids until then wait.My wife owes $1300.00 in back child support. Now she won't let me see or talk to the kids.I'm losing faith in the courts

My wife is doing everything to get out of child support.Everyone knows what she is doing.My lawyer tell me judges will allow this kind of act.They will allow my wife keep the kids down there even though their was routine already set in place for the kids

Answer 1

Your wife isn't doing what is best for the children she is doing what is best for her. Tell her she does not have to pay child support if she lets things alone with the kids and she what her response is to that. The courts are screwed up I know from personal experience. I got to the point where I didn't care if I ever got child support and I raised my kids the way children should be raised. Now that the children are 20 and 21 I get back child support and I don't need it. The entire system is entirely messed up but as a parent do whaat is best for the children. Tell her to keep her money you just want what is best for the children. Good luck and by the way lawyers are part of the system and the system sucks.

Answer 2

What a shame that your wife is using the kids this way. If she really LOVED them, she would want them to see their father as much as possible. But, she is only thinking of herself right now. Your lawyer is right that the courts will allow this because right now you have JOINT custody. What you want to do is file for custodial custody (the kids stay with you and spend weekends with Mom..just like you had it). You need some character references to go to court with you (friends who know you did a good job when the kids were living with you), to help you prove you should have the kids during the week again. Once this gets resolved, if she doesn't let you see the kids, you can take her to court to force your visitation rights OR you will have the kids with you and can permit her to visit only on weekends. But, you should both do what's best for the kids, you know. THEY are the ones who are really suffering because you couldn't make your marriage work.

Answer 3

Your wife is a real piece of work. Since no one has legal physical custody- when you get custody of your child again don't let her have him back. Since there is no formal arrangement it is not a crime- it's a civil matter.

Child support stops or reverses after the court date. She pays until you go back to court. She's stupid because she's paying for having the kids with her and still has to pay you.

I think you have a good case. Stick with it- when the judge sees she took your children- it will be in your favor.

Answer 4

Say for example the worst mother in the world and the worst father in the world have kids, the kids should still go to the mother because nature provided FEMALES, not males, with the capacity to ultimately put their childrens' needs ahead of their own. Even in the womb, the child's nutritional needs are met before the mother's -- the mother has no choice....

Retaliation against your ex-wife is no reason to pursue custody. I have yet to know of a man who has custody of his kids and is not egotistical about it in some way....every avenue should be exhausted for children to remain primarily with their mother.

Answer 5

Your wife should be tarred and feathered. Using kids to punish a parent by denying them a chance to spend time together should be a felony. I have it happen to me, and I'm sure if I would do the same the courts would not have any tolerance for it. I wouldn't do that. Its not my place to interfere with the relationship between my kids and their mother. I wish she would have the same respect. I wouldn't be to concerned about the $1,300. It could give the judge the impression you are concerned more about the $$ than the kids. Be careful.

Answer 6

Get a lawyer.Go get the kids when they are in school and take them home, file a kidnap charge if you have to and tell the court she is playing with the kids psychological welfare by doing these things.The fact that they awarded YOU child support instead of giving the kids to her and giving her child support tells me the courts have a problem with her.

Answer 7

Do you spot her as a intercourse merchandise is the main considered necessary question? If no longer then you certainly're the two at an deadlock and can the two spice issues up or jointly as she's putting in her fake tooth you're able to do what maximum adult men can do in 2 minutes and snore away like the rest human beings!

Answer 8

I am sorry to hear this, I am very sorry your x-wife is being so foolish and using the children as a weapon. Very sad, however, I would try to have some faith in the judicial system. Things are changing and men are gaining more rights inside of family court. I will keep you in my prayers. Good luck and God bless****

Answer 9

I am only 13, but you could mail her a check of 1,500 or more and with the check you could have a letter that says that she can keep the check if you can see or talk to your children.

First, try calling and doing that.

(I wish I could actually help)

Answer 10

haha sucks for you