2007-03-11 06:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If people are your friends, boyfriends, girlfriends ect. they will not do anything or say anything that could hurt you. Dr. Phil always says, you treat people how to treat you. If you allow this, then they will continue. I am never mean to my husband, friends or children, because I love them. I mean people have bad days and might be grouchy, but I never do anything on purpose. These people are not your friends. You need to be direct, and stand up for yourself. Tell them to stop one time. If they don't, go find other friends. You might be lonley for a while, but it is better than being hurt. Go to church, or sports teams, or join a club that intrests you to meet new people. Good luck.
2007-03-11 06:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your friends they would say mean stuff bout you. True friends stay together and never say bad things bout them. Have you asked why they are? Im sure they would say we are just playing around. Well thats not a good reason for them to do that. So i think you should find some new friends and pick good ones the ones that wouldnt talk bout you like that.
2007-03-11 14:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by shortie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me they are not your friends. They just like to make fun of you or just like to used you for their stupid jokes.
Friends always defend their own friends. That's why we called them friends. Friends is someone that you can rely on, you can trust and you can ask for help. If they say that they are your friends, sure they wont say mean stuff about you. Just leave them, don't waste time and money with these kinda friends.
2007-03-11 13:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were truely your friends they wouldn't say mean stuff about you.. Good friends wouldn't do that to you... I would confront them about what they have said and then go and find myself some REAL friends.. cuz people like that just aren't worth your time.. life is toooo short to be taking stuff like that... and to be unhappy about what they have said... so.. make a change and finds someone or some people new...
2007-03-11 13:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Corie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, they aren't serious about being your friend. You're going to need to confront them about their talking behind your back. It will be hard, but it will be worth it. If you're not satisfied with their excuses/apologies, don't be afraid to stop being their friend. It's not worth the effort.
2007-03-11 13:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by hillystargirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends, never do or say demeaning stuff to you or anyone else.
They are NOT YOU'RE FRIENDS, they're using you as a "bouncing board".
Find others!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 13:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them to stop saying mean things and if they don't they're not your friends
2007-03-11 13:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by zaneta j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be direct to them and then drop them. You don't need frineds like that.
2007-03-11 15:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are definitely not your friends and don't let them have anymore opportunity to say anything negative about you.
2007-03-11 14:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them. be direct
2007-03-11 13:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Random answerer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋