He has been asking me to do stuff with him for months now and is always hugging me and holding my hand is he like in love with me? i like him too its just sorta strange....
2007-03-11 06:39:34 · 23 answers · asked by Gracie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He has been asking me to do stuff with him for months now and is always hugging me and holding my hand is he like in love with me? He's my neighbor and he call me his 'girl next door', i like him too its just sorta strange....
2007-03-11 06:48:35 · update #1
oh and he's unhooked my bra a few times too, and he always likes me to lay me head on his shoulder.
2007-03-11 06:51:49 · update #2
we are both 17, and yes we sorat are going out but we're more of friends then spouses.
2007-03-12 09:42:28 · update #3
how old are you and how old is he???
is this a kid neighbor or an adult neighbor?
2007-03-12 09:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this guy is saying all the right things, and making you feel special, beautiful, etc. You probably even look forward to your meetings with him, double checking what you are wearing, getting ready for him to come to your window...
This sounds exciting- but if he really likes you he would come around in the day time as well as discuss why he is ONLY coming to your window instead of to the door like a man or mature boy would do.
Be careful and remember you are only young once, you can't take back some mistakes. Don't let this boy hurt you.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 00:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by rl_pitts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you bc you let him come to the window and take your clothes half off.. for now... and all that you said.
You're smarter than that and you are just his plaything till something else comes along...or he already has a few..
you think or feel its kinda strange bc it is and your female instincts are tryin to tell you its wrong in some way but right in others. right bc it's teaching you a valuable lesson ....
B very careful and listen to all those who are telling you to b careful and cool it
you WILL get used and he WILL take your "P"ower.
then what will you do? cry and get all turned inside out and maybe more STOP!
what will you feel like? like someone who has been used and taken advantage of, and it's not good... :o(
be friends in the daytime around other peopl if at all..I'd suggest be long distance "friends" at the least "no touch" friends...you'll see...
and lastly, any other 17 year old boy would do or say anything to have a neighbor girl to play with like this...till he got what he wanted and more
2007-03-19 05:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you say about this guy doesn't make a lot of sense but he creeps me out anyway. What was he doing unhooking your bra? Tell your parents about him. If you do like him as a friend, insist that he face your parents and treat you like any other girl he might be interested in dating. He's practically a stalker if he's coming to your window.Ugh. He is beyond strange.
2007-03-18 21:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love being around you but don't go thinking he is "in love" until he comes to the front door (through your mom and/or dad). Not that meeting the parents is a must but to love you, he has to RESPECT YOU and a late night caller at the window is only looking for one thing - even if that one thing isn't obvious at first.
2007-03-19 10:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound kinda like me. well, the reason i go to this girls window at night is because we connect on a totally different level. although we are not together, i just can't seem to get enough of her. i think about her all the time. ever try just asking him, maybe he's waiting for you to notice this and give him the opportunity to say what he really wants to say.
2007-03-11 13:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by optcynbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know this guy really well? If not you might want to tell him to to take it down a knotch and if you do know him really well then just go with what your heart says. Always before you jump into a relationship you might want to get to know the person like a friend so you know he wouldn't do anything crazy.
2007-03-11 13:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by beachbabe4sure 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN....no man or boy should be coming to your bedroom window for any reason! If he can't knock on the front door and meet your parents something IS VERY wrong with him...stay away from him........
2007-03-19 11:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just looking for a window to climb in, 10 to 1 if you ask around I bet hes been with half the neighborhood or is currently with half the neighborhood.
Find someone who wants to spend "real" time with you not just sex time.
2007-03-17 22:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you but he may be a player. Watch out before things get serious he may be using you.
2007-03-19 12:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to only show up at night, and be sneaky about it? If he really wants to see you, he should do it out in the open. If he only wants sex, forget it.....you deserve better.
2007-03-18 09:28:46 · answer #11 · answered by Carol G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋