I'm 20 years old, almost 21, and I drank/did drugs all throughout high school and early college years, and I don't enjoy doing either of those things anymore. All of my friends drink and party all the time and I feel really left out because I don't and I don't have fun being around a bunch of drunk people
I feel like I've lost all my friends cause they have fun without me and only talk to me to dump their problems on me or complain about other people.
What should I do?
2007-03-11 05:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find friends who share your view to hang out when the other friends are partying, you can have all different types of friends or you can just go with friends who are like you. Congrats on getting over the college years...
Look for friends who think the way you do, it doesn't mean you have to drop your old friends....
2007-03-11 06:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is find some new people to hang out with. Not all people your age are into drinking/drugs. Sounds like you've outgrown your friends and need to make some new ones.
2007-03-11 17:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing great! It's terrific that you don't need to drink or do drugs to enjoy life. Those are crutches that some of your friends need to remove or cove inadequacies in their personalities. You are a much stronger, intelligent, and confident person! Be proud of that!
2007-03-11 12:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense to your friends, but if all they want to do is get drunk and do drugs, you should find other people to hang out with. Those who respect your decisions.
2007-03-11 13:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Random answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who do drugs or drink underage are definately not people to hang around with. you just need to let them go. dont feel left out because YOU'RE doing the right thing! *_*
2007-03-11 13:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by ~* ☼ ♥ Summer Babii ♥ ☼ *~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends that have other interests than drugs and drinking :)
2007-03-11 13:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Karen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need all this. Your in college, you can find more friends, far better ones.
2007-03-11 13:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋