2007-03-11 05:32:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him how u feel
2007-03-11 05:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by lisaanndubay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to discuss and work out the problems in your past before going back together-if nothing changes then you will not succeed. Once these problems have been resolved or compromised on then they need to stay in the past-no more bringing it up in arguments. Look at this as a brand new relationship as if you met a different man and wanted to marry. Ask yourself all the same questions you would before marrying a different person. Go into it with the idea in your head that it will work and if can if you both work hard at treating each other well, meeting your responsibilities and resolving differences before they become huge!! Good Luck to you.
2007-03-11 12:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing to do is take things at a slow pace. You guys spent some time apart so perhaps you have some re-adjusting to do. You might have to get to know each other again. So dont rush into anything quick, no big decisions for now.
2007-03-11 12:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by R_Me_Duh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys should talk about everything that has gone on since you have been apart, and if you have kids that are young and still in there teens then definatly take it slow. If you have kids in college or university they maybe a little shocked but you should also take it slow. If you don't have any kids at all then have fun!
2007-03-11 12:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you are doing the right thing, there must have been a reason you split in the first place. Then take it slowly, get to know each other again. Good luck :-)
2007-03-11 12:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the rite foot for the first step
2007-03-11 12:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some good running shoes, because once you remember why you left, youll need em. the memory does a funny thing. it masks all the bad memories and keeps the good ones handy in order to keep us sane. the bad memories will return. you made decisions before, stand behind them and trust yourself. all that was bad before will be amplified tenfold. now youve thrown 'whos she slept with since i left her' into the mix.
2007-03-11 12:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tons of communication between the both of you and neither of you bringing up anything negative from the past
concentrate on your love for one another and what brought the two of you together to start with
the key word is DWELL on EVERYTHING positive and
LET GO of EVERYTHING negative
pray together and trust God to help with the rest
2007-03-11 12:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that this is what you want and that you really do want to get back with him.. and take things slow, cause you dont want to end uo back where you are... and do this for you not anyone else...
2007-03-11 12:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by NICOLE R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step is to remember why you got divorced...
It is very very difficult to rekindle an old flame...
2007-03-11 12:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) get marriage counseling
b) rething your decision
c) move back in
d) if things go back the way they were, see A all over again
2007-03-11 12:36:34 · answer #11 · answered by Falina T. Rayon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋