He started calling her the next day. All day and night long they arranged ameeting only after 1 week. She picked him up went back to her house where they had unprotected sex. He even admitted that is what he knew he was going there for. The phone calls continued everyday 25-30 times a day from 8am all the way up to 3am they talked for hours this went on for almost a year, before I found out. He would see her when he could. he says they had sex only 6 times yeah right. He said she did not want a committed relationship. sound to me they both were. she eventually found he was married, didn't matter. He would call her somedays, not even me. The only reason it stopped is because i found out only after a year. Don't you think it would have continued if i had not found out. If you are a cheater, why would you commit yourself to just one person. They both obv cared about each other. Shared alot of his problems and family with her. He says the talks on the phone were only about sex.
2007-03-11 05:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is horrible! what is wrong with some people! The same thing just happen to me but i nipped it in the bud after only 2 months! i was 7 months pregnant andf my SOON TO BE X-HUSBAND started talking and texting and god knows what else with this girl from his work. some peopl have no shame and should be rid of perminently!
GET RID OF HIM NOW BEFORE TO MUCH OF YOUR LIFE PASSES AWAY. DIVORCE AND TAKE HIM FOR EVERYTHING...I WOULD!
2007-03-11 05:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but how long did you know this man before you married him? Also it seems you hav'nt a lot of experience with the opposite sex. Please take the opportunity date different men and always be observant without being noticed.
I'm not saying go and be a hoochy, but don't limit yourself, learn from the men you date, and take your time!! But most importantly say goodbye to your husband, the longer you stay the harder it will be for your self esteem and than you may not have any left.
2007-03-11 12:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry--I hope you divorced him...at this point I wouldnt belive a word he says...I would burn all his clothes take what was valuable and break the rest of his sh*t... my fiance was talking to an exgirlfriend when I found out he was saying a lot that hert me but she lived in another state and they never did anything I forgave him but things still dont feel the same to me --a relationship is almost hardly salvageable once someone cheats.... good luck youll make it at least you dont have kids like us....i hope
2007-03-11 12:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by leanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously hope you can get a divorce or maybe after 2 months of marriage possibly an annulment. You signed up for a bad deal, and I know you were unaware, but I would get out of this situation. What kind of pig is he? I wish you luck, and just remember you dont deserve to be treated like sloppy seconds.
2007-03-11 12:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by mlock123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One him being on the phone that much you should have known something funny was going on...
and he must have not cared that much for you for starting cheating so early on you...if his relationship is just about sex with her...it does not matter...cheating is cheating....it's time you leave this bum...and find a good guy later on down the road...
2007-03-11 12:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is soooo awful. First of all, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I think you should definately get a divorce. That is just WAYYYY to unacceptable. If you hadn't found out, I'm sure it would've continued. Leave him now. If that happened that early in your marriage, it is almost SURE to happen again
2007-03-11 12:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you picked a winner.And youre still married to him why?Id have booted his butt out yesterday.After only 2 month?You were still in your honeymoon phase and he was calling her THAT many times from YOUR house?Where were you all this time?Use your head, divorce him yesterday.
2007-03-11 12:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still with this guy? Please, if you are, tell him to get his act together real quick, or he's out a there! He obviously does not take his marriage vows seriously, and unprotected sex with her? Does he not care about his health? Or anyone's? I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-11 12:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur husband. may be he knew her even before ur marriage but married u as she was not ready for a marriage. may be they did not stop because u found it out but because she was bored of him. if he calls her and not even u then he will not leave her for u. JUST LEAVE HIM and have a life of ur own.
2007-03-11 12:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by pinkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. Sorry, but divorce.
2007-03-11 12:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋