We'ev only been married for 5 months...why is it so hard for him to last and please me?
2007-03-11 05:02:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him about it. It's generally more difficult for us than it is for them. Mine always makes sure to take care of me before we have intercourse, I think that's the way it should be.
2007-03-11 05:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, me personally, i think the two of you should try a different approach. What I mean is, if he know he really cant last that long, maybe he should do more foreplay to start off and basically get you closer to your climax, then perform "different types of pleasure" to get you to the edge of the cliff, and by the time you two begin intercourse, both should finish if not together at the same time, not too long after another.
2007-03-11 06:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by The 1 they want but can't have!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. TELL him what pleases you. I know this can be hard but you don't want to be sexually frustrated for the next 60 yrs!
2. SHOW him what pleases you. If you like your cl*t stroked, show him how. If you like your n*ppl*s licked, practice on him.
3. Make sure you get pleased first, at least some of the time, so you ensure that your satisfied, then him last.
2007-03-11 05:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Falina T. Rayon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gotten a lot of spam about excersizes that can help a guy last longer, maybe those have some value to them...I don't know, being a girl who's never actually looked it up.
Maybe if he tries to think about something else he can last longer?
You can also try to improve his foreplay technique. If you're practically there when you actually get around to doing the deed, it makes his job easier.
2007-03-11 05:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Short of a course in sexual and sensual love, with a sex therapist, he has what is called premature ejaculation. And it takes some effort and control on his part to change. Assuming he wants to change too, a few sessions with a sex therapist will help. Short of that, you both need to read the book "For you both" by Lonnie Barbach, THE sex therapist in the country today....in paperback, and worth every dime.
2007-03-11 05:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys like to know they have a satisfied customer (or is that just me) so if he asks tell him you want more foreplay. You could suggest some new techniquies get abook and flick through it together ans say what about that. You can usually find lots of tip in women magazines/
2007-03-11 05:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During sex, intercourse is the last milestone after which nothing remains to be done. Ask him to play and caressing you for quite some time before doing the intercourse. You will probably come out before him.
2007-03-11 05:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by ars32 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about this, you can't go through your married life being unsatisfied. He needs to learn how to do oral sex or something.
2007-03-11 05:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u 2 should sit down for a looooong discussion, that might end up in a little bit more than a discussion, get my drift???
2007-03-11 05:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by luvurdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn about dining at the Y.
2007-03-11 05:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋