I know a guy who has a gf who did this to him, I'm wondering how she went about it.
2007-03-11 04:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by shastaviolet 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not sure anybody can "trick" somebody into pregnancy. Each person is responsible for their own bodies. If a man refuses to wear a condom just because his girlfriend tells him she is on the pill - that was HIS CHOICE to take the risk.
Same is true if a woman lets a man not wear a condom because he told her that he's had a vasectomy - then that was HER CHOICE to take the risk.
We all have that choice. Not everybody is trustworthy even if they give us the impression that they are. Even if you've been with them a million years. If you don't want to become a parent yet - ALWAYS make sure a condom is used. No ifs, no buts, no maybes. It's that simple. :-)
2007-03-11 05:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "trick" someone with half a brain into a pregnancy. Even if a woman says she's on birth control, it is the responsibility of both parties to take appropriate contraception action. If a person wanted a child that bad, they should adopt or visit a sperm bank.
2007-03-11 06:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one should never trick another person -male or female into having a child with out consent. This is a life that is being created and that child is someone to whom both parents will be responsible for - forever. To trick someone into this is unforgivable not to mention shows lack of moral character. An unplanned pregnancy in the best case scenario can still lead to resentment and problems in the relationship. No i think plotting to get pregnant is not the way to go in any relationship. If you want a baby and you BF does not - move on and if you still want a baby w/o the benefit of a BF / Husbands consent - look to the sperm bank.
2007-03-11 05:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mum of 6 - newest born 8-25-07 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
tell HIM!!!!! a woman that tricks a guy into getting her pregnant is not any lady in any respect yet a low existence tramp sorry to assert that approximately your so called buddy whether it particularly is the certainty. Has she even talked to him approximately why he doesnt pick extra little ones and if she does this whilst a custody conflict arises you will could testify that it replaced right into a planned deception if it includes that. in the journey that your buddy needs a toddler so undesirable why does she pick her bf till they're so in love that they plan on getting married yet whilst she gets pregnant which will pass down the drain quickly. tell him her plans and then tell her if she is desperate the two have one night stands or pass to a sperm financial company for a secret donor till she plans on trapping her bf for newborn help on account that she isnt finacially waiting for raising a toddler on her very own and if it is so tell her to stop and think of approximately how many mothers get screwed because of the fact dads dont pay newborn help and if she loses a custody conflict then she could pay a butt load of money so its a lose lose situation.
2016-11-24 20:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by defranco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine from high school did that. She had a lying cheating boyfriend and she was one of those girls who wanted to have the bad boy all to herself, so she decided to tell him she was pregnant (even though she really wasn't) and said the doctor said they can have sex without a condom. Sure enough she had her baby 9 months later at age 17, while her boyfriend joined the marines, left state and is more than likely still cheating. Both of them are still together and both love their baby girl more than anything in the world.
2007-03-11 07:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By lying and saying you're using birth control when you aren't. It's a stupid thing to do and you can end up a single mother doing that if the the boyfriend/husband decides he isn't interested in being a father. If the purpose is to make sure the man doesn't leave it will probably have the opposite affect.
2007-03-11 05:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i have been in this situation before. my ex slept with a girl one time... she got him drunk and high at her most fertile time and had sex with him. about 3 months later she popped up again saying "I am pregnant and it is urs" she did it on purpose because she thought he would take care of her and her other 2 children that were by 2 other guys. she knew he would stand up and take responsibility for his child and she wanted him to take care of the other 2 and her. to this day he still takes care of his daughter. pays for her and helps out with child support. but for the most part has nothing to do with her. and does not support her other 2. he still regrets it because that was the main reason we broke up. we still talk and he is a great dad. i hope that nobody has to go through what he and i did.
2007-03-11 05:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when deciding to have a baby both parties need to agree on it. it is not fair to the baby if the man is being tricked into a baby. that is just wrong. and you are only hurting that child. they need two parents who wants him or her. not just one. and now days if someone tricks someone else does not mean that he will marry them, So I would really think about doing that. don't trick no one in giving you a baby.
2007-03-11 05:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Ooh. Its completely unfair to trick someone into a lifetime of parenthood. If its meant to be, and the right person, they will want to be a father. Anything else will back fire on you. I promise.
2007-03-11 04:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by bresmama 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Bad idea. Don;t have a baby until BOTH of you are really ready.
2007-03-11 05:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋