do all men lick down there or if they don't what should you do?i'm kind of shy preson and can not talk this stuff to my husband i always aks him what he want but i can't tell what i want any solution?
2007-03-11 04:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by sue 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
well my fiance LOVES when I ask him to do it, apparently thats a big turn on in itself. If you really can't ask, you could try directing him to that area. DO you perform on him? if so, a good way to hint, and a sexy proposition could be to go down on him while he's lying down on the bed, straddle his chest so your facing his genitals. with your booty propped up above his face he probably won't be able to resist. If it doesn't work you really should just ask him to.. I guarantee he'll be all for it! most guys LOVE doing that for a woman tey care about and you will love it as well. good luck.
2007-03-11 04:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by kerri c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something creative...if you have a hard time talking to him...there's always email...(he doesn't have to see you blush)..draw a pic, stick people..and on top write...THIS IS WHAT I WANT...leave it on his pillow...these are just suggestions to break the ice...the more you talk about it the easier it is...I know there's a wild women in you wanting to get out...I use to be shy...but the more you open up...you really can be yourself in and out of the bedroom...good luck..have fun with it
2007-03-11 05:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take some time to talk about sex, outside the bedroom. Discuss what you would like with him, and let him tell you what he would like from you. If it would help, get a book like The Joy of Sex, read it together and discuss it. He is not a mind reader, you need to tell him what you want, or he is never going to do it.
2007-03-11 04:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men perform oral sex, but if they want to receive it, it'd be wise for them to exchange the favor.
If you can't talk to your husband about these things, particularly sexuality, you have other issues on your hands.
I recommend taking a new approach to sexuality. It sounds like you are a bit naive about it, and that may be why you don't feel like you can talk to your husband about it. And it's not about being shy. It's simply about being comfortable with your body and with sex.
(Unsolicited advice, I know, but the wording of your question was more troubling to me than your actual question.)
2007-03-11 04:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
put chocolate there and say lick it off - say you enjoy it and then he might get the hint that he should do it more often - if not the you could try saying you want a whole day of just your pleasure and ask him that thats included- hope this helps xx
2007-03-11 04:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by shopperholicrachel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rent a porno file that shows a guy doing to his gal what you want - watch it with your hubby and make comments like "ooh, that looks like fun" or -- I bet that would feel good" -- Or you could just suck him first and then say "my turn!" Good luck -k-
2007-03-11 04:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can write it... slip him an exiting note.... work out how you want to say it for a while... practise saying things like this in your mind. even if you don't say them in the end, it will make you feel less and less awkward about it.
in the end I just went ahead and said it... and my guy didnt even look surprised, he just set to it...:)
2007-03-11 04:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants oral, then tell him he should return the favor....
my gf loves it when i go down on her, and so do i because i get a nice little reward :D
2007-03-11 04:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be glad nobody slobbers down there. Keep your mind on a higher plane.
2007-03-11 04:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by MaryTasty 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ohh, what a question., wow wow.
Be more assertive and tell him your sexual needs. Sex involves two people.
2007-03-11 04:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋