Sex and pregnancy problems?

Question

Ok heres the promblem,
Most months i am quite worried incase i am pregant, as i only use comdoms for sex and other stuff

I cant go on the proper pill as i have a liver disorder, but i can go on the another pill but the promblem with that is i have derpression and are on a high dose of anti derpressents i have been told the pill and anti derpressents do not harm to tak them both.

But i know if i take them my mood could be even worse than it is now.

Now i could easy say i wont have sex etc, but i have a boyfriend of 4 years and you know what men are like girls you have to keep them happy so they dont go looking somewhere else.

I dont know what to do can you help me please?

Answer 1

If you dont want a baby and you dont want to go on the pill for obvious reasons that you have explained then maybe you could get one of those IUD things fitted, i think the other name for them is the coil. You can get ones which dont contain any of the hormones used in both pills so it shouldnt affect your mood but it all depends on how you feel about having that done. You could always go and see your doctor or a family planning nurse to talk about your options or you could take a look at this site http://www.by-choice-not-chance.com/en/pages/04/index.php

Good luck

Answer 2

There are other forms of contraception out there.....you might be better suited to a none hormonal one like the coil...I take a mild anti-depressant during winter as i have SAD, but had the implant(contraceptive rod) fitted into my arm a year ago. I have found that really good, though some people i know found they had erratic mood swings. The best thing you can do is go and speak to someone at your local family planning clinic, they have all the up to date facts and will be able to advise you with regard to your medication.

Answer 3

Your uterus is probable extra swollen than your previous 2 children. My female friend and that i had a similar problem. She couldn't be aroused as rapidly, it damage when we had sex, and she might want to cramp up badly afterwards. i imagine alot of it replaced into hormones yet I chalk something as a lot because the psychological outcome of the dimensions of the tummy and different aspects of being pregnant. lots of ladies human beings don't sense as suited so sex correct away suffers. you're fortunate you obtain this a lengthy way contained in the being pregnant before you had problems with sex. i'm no longer positive what you would possibly want to do to get round it except merely be sluggish, gentle, and use a honest quantity of lubricant. also, try positions the position the tummy wont be smushed or positioned into an uncomfortable position in any know. sturdy luck to you :)

Answer 4

Condoms are a very reliable form of contraception as long as you use them properly. There is no reason why you shouldn't carry on using them, and you don't need to worry about pregnancy if you have been using them properly.

Otherwise, consider a diaphram.

Answer 5

Do what you've been doing for the last 4 years. It's tried and tested and it works for both of you. I don't see any reason why you should change something that works.

Answer 6

Take a pregnancy test

And get him to go for male contraception if you don't want to get pregnant it works just the same as womens

Answer 7

There are other contraceptives available other than the pill....visit your doc/family planning clinic to discuss what would be best for you.

try this site also -

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/contraception_which.htm

Answer 8

first of all you shudnt feel like you have to have sex with him jus because u been 2gether for 4 years ....if he's been with you for that long why wud he leave u because you cant have sex....that doesnt make sense but anyways your health is more important then him "gettin sum"

Answer 9

plan b you thake the day after you have sex it like birth control only you take when you need it

Answer 10

Why don't you ask your doctor what other contraception might be okay for you?

Good Luck.