Coming out !!!!?
I want to tell people that im bisexual but I dont want to really embarrase my friends. I dont care about what people think about me if you call me *** whatever I dont care I like penis lol cant help it there great and vagian i cant help it there great. But I dont want to embarrase my friends or have them teased about hanging around with a ***. Most bi guys or gay guys that come out dont worry about there friends because most of there friends are girls but most of my friends are guys except for like 2 or 3 so whats your word of advice should I wait until I graduat 2 years or say something now. Im really scared because my some of my family is black,most black people are overlly homophobic in adition to that they are baptist sonservatives this is a mess.
2007-03-11 04:27:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well... in the end, everything is OK and happiness is not dependent on others but oneself. You can be a Baptist and Gay at the same time.
2007-03-11 05:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Stargazer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why bother to tell anyone? The only people who need to know are the people you sleep with, don't worry about telling any of your friends or embarrassing anyone.
As for your family, they're going to find out sooner or later, so them you have to worry about telling. It shouldn't be too bad though, usually the families figure if you're bi there's still "hope" for you...
2007-03-11 11:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by pookieb 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to worry about telling anyone, as long as you're confident in yourself, the only person who needs to know is you. Unless of course you're looking for lots of sex with both boys and girls, it doesn't matter whether you're straight, bi, or gay. So unless everyone asks you, just be yourself, and know who you are.
2007-03-11 11:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now why would u say that about Black ppl? Sounds like you have some other issues you should discuss as well.
2007-03-11 13:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Richkat76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you are confused about who you are. You need to seek help for more than just a web site. I recommend a person of Godly character. Do Bible research. Help is only a prayer away.
God bless you
2007-03-11 21:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoever your closest friend is, hint that you're gay. When you feel comfortable enough, tell them you are. Repeat this until you feel comfortable enough to not give a sh*t
2007-03-11 12:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋