u love some one and some time u have more expectation from them n its not going according to the way which u want . and u feel sed . but if u want to remain happy u must neglect expectation
2007-03-11 04:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by nicke_kim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not!!! Se ya when you grow up, I am very happily married, and very much in love, and both my hubby and I most definitely expect many things from one another. We have certain goals to accomplish, and we BOTH have to work to achieve our goals. To be happy you must not be neglected in any way. Expect the best, and that is what you will get. Do not settle for less.
2007-03-11 04:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people expect more from their love or lovers? Why cant a person be a person as he or she was before meeting or marriage and accept his/her lover as they are. Why they always want to bend the person to give him/her shape as they like to see.. I cant still dont understand. I think the main problem in the married life is this and because of this 70% marriage faces problem.
2007-03-12 04:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by funxxxnxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before NOT "AFTER" you marry the person, you MUST see him/her as they are and either be CONTENT with who they are or let them go.If you go INTO a marriage trying to make them change ,or fix them, YOU WILL FAIL!No one can be your "everything".They are human and have limitations, they cannot read your mind, you MUST communicate and the best time for that is BEFORE you say "I DO".Seeing that you are already married, talk to one another and compromise where you can and give in when you cannot compromise or agree.
2007-03-11 11:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because this is the nature of law as the nature work without any expectation and this is the right way
2007-03-12 09:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by sona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU ARE QUITE RIGHT BECAUSE THERE ARE LIMITATION OF EXPECTATIONS. SO NEVER THINK ALWAYS ABOUT EXPECTATIONS. BE HAPPY IN SIMPLE LIFE BUT LOVING.
2007-03-12 11:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because when we love someone..we tend to overlook their flaws. we accept them for who they are. expectations are just guidelines of what we want but it need not mean we will get them all the time.
2007-03-11 11:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by bunbananabun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great expectations and disappointment go together.
2007-03-13 02:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's right . Sometimes you have to give up what you want to recieve love.
2007-03-11 11:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is unconditional, expect nothing, recieved nothing, yet you continue to love
2007-03-11 11:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have given the answer of your question.
2007-03-11 11:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by J.L. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋