I want to tell people that im bisexual but I dont want to really embarrase my friends. I dont care about what people think about me if you call me fag whatever I dont care I like penis lol cant help it there great and vagian i cant help it there great. But I dont want to embarrase my friends or have them teased about hanging around with a fag. Most bi guys or gay guys that come out dont worry about there friends because most of there friends are girls but most of my friends are guys except for like 2 or 3 so whats your word of advice should I wait until I graduat 2 years or say something now. Im really scared because my some of my family is black,most black people are overlly homophobic in adition to that they are baptist sonservatives this is a mess.
2007-03-11 04:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sry about my spelling i was in a rush lol
2007-03-11 05:23:49 · update #1
Talk to your friends on an individual basis.
2007-03-11 05:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by JD, MAPSY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a reason to come out as bi, such as wanting to have a relationship with a specific male, then why bother coming out? All it will do is make your friends uncomfortable around you and your family and friends will spend great amounts of time telling you that you are straight, especially if you have a relationship with a female. If you want to come out as bi wait till you have a reason.
2007-03-11 11:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by elvishbard 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say nothing for now, you may decide to go one way or the other sometime, and you cant turn the clock back.
2007-03-11 11:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by leigha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋