Hello poeple. I am a boy, in grade 12, and i really thought that i dont need any girl friend to pass my life until i get married since my only weakness is to becoming a girl. But majority of my friends has girls. And i have problem with talking to girl because i am not experienced so need immidiate help? and i am not ugly, i am one of the most good looking studunt in my class, jsut coz u know!
If u wish people, add me in your messenger
enlightened_someone@yahoo.com
I need back up.
2007-03-11 04:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Servant of Allah, Our Sovereign. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bottom line, you are interested in girls and do not know how to start a conversation. Actually it is a common problem and easily solved. Find one you are interested in, find a common interest, and then ask a question about that common interest. Turn that into an introduction, then continue the conversation like normal. Say you see a girl in the hall outside class. You share the class. You walk up to her and say, hey, you are in class...? with me right. OK, did you understand this or that the teacher was talking about. Or, did you the answer to number 3 on the home work. Say you are at a park or concert and see someone. Walk up and make a comment like, don't you just love this park or concert? That will at least get the ball rolling. Imagine a conversation like a game... bounce the ball to her and she has to return it. If she does not, then be polite and walk away. Some people may be rude, don't worry about it. If she is, you did not want to spend time with her anyway. Also, keep in mind the golden rule. If she is not good enough to qualify as a friend, then she is not qualified to be more. Make a friend, then work on the girl friend part. Even if you don't go out with her, she will still be a friend. And, sometimes, later in life...weeks, months, years, they might just change their mind. Hope this helps.
2007-03-11 05:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by GA-Seagull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only wish is to become a girl? Maybe you were born in the wrong body. Maybe you are gay. Have you ever considered that? Of course you aren't ugly, but it is your own choice if you want to be a real boy or a real girl. You can have surgery to become a girl if you really want to, but it's an immense change in your life and it is expensive.
I don't know in what country you live?
Think it over, you have time enough and what is wrong with being a batchelor?
2007-03-11 04:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hanya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you want what? a magic formula, people get skills from taking risk which you have not done. you think you are better than everyone else, you think you should be able to avoid the bumps and bruises which define a person. not a chance. put your ego on the line like the rest of us have. if your family is rich, you could buy yourself a g/f and avoid the bumps and bruises. your helpless attitude will keep people away from you.
looks will only carry you so far. and if it is true, they haven't been much use to you so far. you expect what to change your track record? don't try to bullshyt us. you wanted a g/f all along but didn't know how to go about it.now everyone thinks you are gay and it's important you prove them wrong
2007-03-11 08:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight, you dont have a girl Friend, and your only weakness is to become a girl, What kind of experience do you need to talk to a girl, just walk up to one, and start running your mouth just like you do with the boys, it helps that your not ugly, but it really doesn't matter if your only looking for a friend, most girls like to talk to anybody.
2007-03-11 04:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident and ur self u will do find
2007-03-12 00:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by you are my angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋