what is up wit cheaters....? have u ever cheated?

Question

what is up with this world being full of cheaters? in every relationship that i know of there has been one person to cheat on there partner...and yet after everyone says leave the cheaters...they dont. they stay with them...for whatever reason. and dont understand...is love truely blind?

if u cheated let me know...i want to know what u were thinking and if u stopped or u still do?

personally i have never cheated on someone...so where are all the noncheaters...how do u cope?

Answer 1

People who cheat have emotional issues that need to be addressed. Some people are just plain implusive and sexually driven. Attraction is not something people have by choice, it just happens. It`s the implusive and sexually driven people that test the water and go swimming up poop creek.I think they are looking for gratification or they are trying to subdue an unhappy feeling when they cheat. Bottom line is, people who cheat are unhappy with themselves and have no self esteem. Why would somebody want to throw away their body for casual sex? Almost like an unpaid prostitute, don`t you think? I feel sorry for the kinds of people who continuously cheat, they`re constantly " giving themselves away for no loving committment". VERY SAD!

Answer 2

Amanda... I feel your pain. As a NON-cheater, I have been the victim many times. That pain is what keeps me from cheating. Its a sad, sad person who can hurt another that way. It takes a lot more strength to say no to another opportunity, and say yes to the person you originally should be loyal to.

People cheat for a few different reasons. First, many cheaters are not as self-confident as they'd like to be, so if another person shows interest in them, they feel the need to pursue that and see how far it will go. Unfortunately, it usually goes to the bedroom. Second, its greed. Cheaters are trying to get too much of a good thing.

The NON-cheaters are out there, they're just harder to find (because they are being loyal to someone). Best of luck to you in finding someone who loves you and only you.

Answer 3

In my case, I was unfaithful to my ex-wife. My ex-wife was also unfaithful to me with a friend. The lesson I learned is this: While my actions caused suffering by my ex, the true loss was to me for I had betrayed myself. What bitter wine my ill advised harvest had brought me. Some say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I hope that is not the case. I have been married to my present wife 12 years and have never sought an opportunity or had such presented to have an affair.

Answer 4

I've never cheated in any of my relationships in my younger years and never have in the past 24yrs. of marriage and am positive, yes, positive, my partner hadn't either.
Stay a NONE CHEATER, there is a saying: ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH WAITING ON! It's true. Someday you'll find the one whom thinks like you, the CHEATERS end up alone.

Answer 5

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED, AND I STILL WANT TO BELIVE IN THE VOWS I TOOK 28 YRS AGO ARE STILL STRONG WITH IN ME AND MY HUSBAND. BUT ABOVE EVERYTHING, CHEATTING IS SOMETHING I WILL NOT ALLOWED.

IS BETRAIL AND WEAKNESS FROM ANY PERSON WHO DOES THIS. IF YOUR GOING TO CHEAT, THEN LEAVE THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE GOING AHEAD WITH THIS IDIOTIC ACTION.